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I posted this as a Journal entry, but I wanted to make sure that everyone knows how much I appreciate there support.
38 years ago 8/13 I married Tim , I really did not know him very well but as the years passed he became my best friend. 2 years ago the lord made him an Angel. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of him and miss him. He was such a huge influence in my life. He made me who I am today. A strong independent woman who has survived the worst thing imaginable, losing her other half. He gave me the confidence to take chances.
His passing has taught me that life is to short not to be open and honest, tell people how you feel. It has also taught me patience, more patience than I ever thought I had. As I go to sleep tonight I pray that he will visit me in my dreams and remind me that I am blessed.
So to all my friends and family know that I love you and would not have survived the last two years without your love and support.
Sleep well and dream in color.
Love and Hugs, Sandi
38 years ago 8/13 I married Tim , I really did not know him very well but as the years passed he became my best friend. 2 years ago the lord made him an Angel. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of him and miss him. He was such a huge influence in my life. He made me who I am today. A strong independent woman who has survived the worst thing imaginable, losing her other half. He gave me the confidence to take chances.
His passing has taught me that life is to short not to be open and honest, tell people how you feel. It has also taught me patience, more patience than I ever thought I had. As I go to sleep tonight I pray that he will visit me in my dreams and remind me that I am blessed.
So to all my friends and family know that I love you and would not have survived the last two years without your love and support.
Sleep well and dream in color.
Love and Hugs, Sandi
Sandi, we are the lucky ones, I know it, but I don't promise not to complain that it wasn't enough. I adored my man, so much so that I would drive him crazy taking pictures and nagging him to sit close to me or hug me, or hold my hand. I couldn't get enough of my delicious man and it sounds like you felt the very same way.
We will have to survive now without them. I hold onto all my memories, I shall ALWAYS treasure our time that we had together.
Remain the string woman that you are,
Roz
38years ago I was engaged to the most important person in my life & like Roz said, we were the lucky ones.
I have had friends tell me that Larry & I had a
rarity that very few people will every have or experience..... Lord do I know, but at times I think that is what it makes it much harder... because of the deep deep rooted love ...
That crave and miss so much daily.
But like you Sandi, he made me a stronger person !!!