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I had a good dream about my wife. Their was a sad undertone. I don't even know if I should post it. She basically told me that she wouldn't be able to come to me in my dreams anymore and that she would always love me. I think I had this dream on Thursday. There are no religious undertones so I don't think it would offend anyone. If you want to read the rest of what my dream was about, let me know and I may post it or just message it
You might not think so, but let me first explain ~
In my first dream, I opened the front door to find Bob holding divorce papers against the glass door stuttering as he asked for a divorce; he accompanied by 3 other dead guys ~
He quickly said he wanted to go to CA to go fishing, snow skiing, diving, golfing, etc ~ (probably also wanted to look at girls w/out feeling guilty! *hee, hee, hee*)
I grabbed his golf club chased he & the dead guys down the street screaming & yelling ~
F'n a**hole!
Next time I opened the front door Bob was hiding behind his buddy holding a stringer of fish, he said that I told him not to come home till he caught something ~
Internally fuming, I asked if he'd been staying w/Dave the entire year, he replied w/a yes. I decked Dave & dragged Bob in the house ~
Bastard!
In my final dream, Bob repeatedly rang the doorbell ~
Angrier than a hornet, I screamed "WTF, do you want! ~
He looked so adorable as he told me he just wanted me to get over him ~
But, unfortunately, my demeanor quickly changed to becoming OCD ... simmering as I tapped my foot completely stuck on his words resounding in my head "get over him" ~
A couple of minutes later, I kissed & hugged him, asked if that was the reason for the other two visits, he responded w/a YES. Next I asked if he'd be around to support me & the kids, he also said, "YES ... just think of me & I'll come". Bob looked so damn cute I just wanted to squeeze his guts (?) out ~ *smile*
Take it easy ~ *wink*
-------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------*I am currently unsupervised. I know, it freaks me out too! But the possibilities are endless* ~ me ~
Jerk! *snort*
Fortunately, I got the message ~ *wink*
I had a similar experience , in that dream we had a very important conversation, saying goodbyes and expressing love for each other.
I distinctly remember, that the very next day after that dream I woke up feeling very peaceful.
Hope you are feeling better.
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