Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.
When will I be able to take a breath without my heart feel like it is splitting in two.
When will I be able to look in the mirror and recognize the eyes that look back at me.
When will I be able to see the sunshine without thinking we should be out checking the crops or walking through the meadows.
When will I be able to see him again,
When will I be able to stroke his cheek.
When will I be able to hear his voice again.
When will I ...
Not getting any easier, I hate that time in each and every day and sometimes multiple times a day, that it hits me again just like it was yesterday.
This group is a God-send.
When will I be able to look in the mirror and recognize the eyes that look back at me.
When will I be able to see the sunshine without thinking we should be out checking the crops or walking through the meadows.
When will I be able to see him again,
When will I be able to stroke his cheek.
When will I be able to hear his voice again.
When will I ...
Not getting any easier, I hate that time in each and every day and sometimes multiple times a day, that it hits me again just like it was yesterday.
This group is a God-send.
A friend tonight told me tonight it will get better, but she didn't tell when...
Take care.
Wish I could tell you WHEN it will get better. For all of us it is so different. And none of us has a built in clock. How I wish there was, and we could all know when a little bit of light would come into our lives.
I just know for me it is just starting to really come back for me. LIFE creeps in when you don't expect it. sometimes kickinhg and screaming but it does come back to you. It's a different life, one you hadn't planned on and did not want, but it does come back just the same.
One day you wake up and know that you are HERE. You know that there is a purpose to being here, and you find that PURPOSE. You will find it in your own wy, in your own time, and it will hit you just like the pain does now. You will ALWAYS miss him. that will NEVER CHANGE no matter what you do if you are like me, but you will enjoy life again. you will see Spring and be ok ENJOYING it!
that hold in your heart will close it will scar. it will always BE THERE but the hurt will not be what it is now. It will be a dull ache, and at times it will still hit you over the head, knck you down and try to drag you under again, but you will get through it, and you will get up the next day to try all over again, and you will make it much more than not.
It will happen for you dear friend. the WHEN is up to you, your time, your way.
HUGS. BIG TIGHT HUGS and know it WILL HAPPEN Diane