Widows & Widowers Support Group

This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.

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Nicker07 07/03/2012

My SIL's stepmom is intensive care, her cancer it seems although it was thought to be have stopped is fully involved, she is unable to eat, and in serious pain, now her kidneys and other organs are shutting down.

HIS MoM is in the hospital - unable any longer to care for herself - she is bi polar, dementia and serious diabetic. She has not be taking medication for all three properly for some time now has gone off the "deep end" so today is court date to determine what her needs will now be. Children have tried to take care of her but circumstances have occurred no longer able to do so....truly hard on SIL.

LoveUbabe 07/03/2012

Prayers for them....I hate hearing of people sick these days now or people in pain....they should load them up with painkillers...

I just feel all the feelings of the people around them involved...ugh..so stressful........prayers out to them

deleted_user 07/03/2012

Prayers for them and you....so much to be dealing with at one time.......
Janice

pathoflife 07/03/2012

I'm so sorry for these very painful, emotional days you are having with family. When love is involved, everything--especially serious health issues--that touches them, touches us big time. You have had so many things to deal with as you've made life-changing decisions regarding your future. I hope you will find the inner strength to be what is needed as your family goes through these horrible days of waiting and decision-making. Hang on. Blessings to you as you stand fast for your family. You have been a pillar of strength. Your posts show that strength as you faced each new dilemma since your loss. TJ

norahua2011 07/03/2012

My prayers and thoughts are with you and withd them.

Hector

deleted_user 07/03/2012

the very best I have my friend...coming straight for you and the family.

LOVE TO YOU ALL and KNOW we are with you all....... diane

deleted_user 07/03/2012

You and all of your family members are in my prayers offered!

(((HUGS)))

Compassionately
BEAR

anniewho 07/03/2012

Nicker, sending prayers for your SIL and family. There is so much serious disease, it just keeps coming. Thank you for your prayers for my SIL also.

Annie

goldenearrings 07/03/2012

Prayers going up......L

Dreamer40 07/03/2012

Consider it done and done, (((((Nicker)))))! Hold on tight...there's love all around you.Marilyn

LoisBlaylock 07/03/2012

Prayers for you and all of us

Oluwa 07/03/2012

Dear Heavenly Father, bring comfort to this family in their suffering, and bless the means made use of for their care, doctors. Please fill their hearts with confidence that, though at times they may be afraid they know you will bring them comfort..Thank you, God. Amen.

NewRoadsForMe 07/03/2012

So very sorry to hear of the avalanche of health problems in your family. I'm glad you shared in this wonderful community so that we may join with you in praying for the very best for your family members. (((Hugs to you!)))
Kathleen