Widows & Widowers Support Group
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Allison Krause's "Away Down the River".
If you don't already, put those pictures on a CD or make copies and put in a safe deposit box. A fire would wipe out years of memories in just a few minutes. Just saying..........
I had to give Rogers awards, other placks to his sons (which is ok cuz if I died who in my family cares) so I took them down to Office Max who photo copied them so I can now put them in a scrapbook.
I just wished I had the energy or frame of mind to put the photos back into chronically order and get it started.
I started scanning them and e-mailing them to my siblings - I have 5 siblings and I knew most didn't have the same photos I had. This encouraged the others to start doing the same. One of the unexpected bonuses of doing this was receiving pictures of me and Cliff I had never seen before, as well as stuff from my childhood. My parents are also dead, so receiving photos that contained them as well brought a smile.
I used software that came with my printer to restore some of the old photos, too.
I still have a bunch to go through. I am trying to find some of my relatives to post on my genealogy sites. Judith
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Then, later, I could not stand for his pictures to be sitting around. I had to move them where I didn't see them often~~ for a while. It made me very sad to see him in the pictures and not be able to see him in person.
In the hall I did a Memory Wall for him. So, when I need to do so, I stop and look at the pictures~~one from our wedding, on up to the summer before he died in Dec. There are a couple of his plaques that I placed there too. Then, I chose the poem, "The Broken Chain" to frame and place on his Memory Wall.
Now, I can look at his pictures and smile, sometimes, a little sadness sneaks in, but, mainly, I remember whatever we had been doing before and after the pictures.
No pictures of him are in our bedroom, just can't go there. There are several in the livingroom though.
As with everything else on this journey, we all have to do what makes us comfortable.
Hugs, Joely