Widows & Widowers Support Group
This community is dedicated to those who have lost a husband, wife, or partner. Anything is open for discussion here, with the hope that we can focus on grief, bereavement, life after loss, and continuing on after a great loss.

Here where I'm at the gas company prefers to light furnaces, it also gives them an opportunity to check for carbon monoxide. Ours is also free of charge -
I have 2 electric heating & cooling systems due to the size of the house; they cost $10,000 -
*SCREAM*
I cried every time something broke ... it was just too much! One damn thing after another. That was then ...
In January, my washer & dryer broke at the same time - Yippy! I just love my front loading washer & dryer, they also have the cutest chiming sounds when they're done. Now I don't have to use a steep stool to retrieve clothing from the bottom of the tub -
A widow friend of mine learned to build a barn, another overhauled her car engine while another built a 2000sqft home for herself & kids & yet another learned to negotiate a great deal on a new car -
Its amazing the things we can learn when finances force us to -
I've been successful w/my own home repairs thanks to the Man Store (Home Depot) - they are so helpful. If you're not able to do the repairs they have a list of contractors ready for hire to do the work -
In time when the grief doesn't feel like you're dragging around a ball & chain, you'll be to do/try things you never imagined or thought possible -
It will be a great lift to your self confidence -
One baby step at a time -
(((HUGS)))
*Hugs*
I almost blew myself up with a gas furnace in a mobilehome that the pilot went out in. I tried to light it not knowing the flue was blocked. I burned my hand really bad. Just be careful.