i often have always wondered why...only to have no answers...im not sure if we are supposed to know why or not.....ive always wondered what i could have done to change everything..what i could have done different to have kept him here with me...i dont know, i just dont know...i miss him so much..it still hurts more than anything....

Not in the same way, why - I wondered why some people are called home back to God sooner than others and in the manner they are called back. I also wondered if we did do something different would it make a difference? Thats my wondering of why

I think the "whys" of everything, and the way it happens are always going to be questions which never will have answers. I think why everytime I see my stepchildren and childrens' eyes. I think "why" everytime I hear one of our favorite songs, and "we" aren't there to hear them together. Just "me". I think 'why' every morning I get up, and there's no one to be there to say 'morning!" to. I wonder why things happen out of no where and with no warning to them. dont think we'll ever get those answers. and not sure we are supposed to anymore. Frustrating part is leting go of the "why". I know for me, not ready to yet at all. Hope I will at least put it on a back burner someday.

I do wonder why. Why Mike. He was a good person. Why my kids. They have no dad. Why me. I am a good person. Am I being punished?

Maggie

I found myself not asking WHY? too much. I truly believe that there are some things we will never know the answer to until we are face to face with the creator.
I never really wanted to dwell on the whys...probably because I knew there would not be any definitive answer...I figure if the doctors knew the whys, then our loved ones wouldn't have had to go through the treatments and endure all that they did....there would have been a cure...
I'm at the point where I need to begin to get this single thing to a healthy place...one of joy...one of what's next? (in a good way!)....one of "okay God, you said you would guide me, so I'm ready!"...
We have to keep looking up! Be well my friends.