I have never been to a psychic. I can actually sense and see spirit myself - everyone possesses 'psychic' ability to some degree...the problem is...while I am pretty sure I can sense my husband's spirit, I'm not completely sure it's him all the time.
If you do decide to try a medium, be careful of your choice...there are so many out there who are just out for $$...the fraudulent ones are professionals when it comes to making the most ambiguous details seem personal to the client. Good luck, I wish you the best

Thanks Wendi, not sure I am going to go, just something my best friend and I have been kicking around! thanks for your reply, and sorry for my spelling (gads) ha ha. Hugs and Love, Michele

I have thought about it... but have not actually done it yet. Part of me really wants to, but part of me thinks they might be fake, and plus, I get so many signs and "messages" that I am not sure even a real one could tell me much more that what I already get

I understand Amy. Are you getting any sleep yet? I sure hope so. You worry me that you just push yourself so hard. Hugs and Love, Michele

Still barely sleeping... but sometimes I get about two hours total, but not usually straight. The other day I sat down on the loveseat and as soon as my rear hit the seat, I guess I fell over asleep. My daughter-in-law was here and freaked out. She thought I passed out and shook me awake. I told her that I evidently was so exhausted that I just fell asleep for a moment.

I had never thought of Mediums before Marc died. One day I was listening to Sirius radio and a psychic medium was on the show. I ordered his book from amazon “Never Argue with a Dead Person” by Thomas John. I read it. It’s light and easy to read and quite interesting. It sounded very credible too. Then it turned out Thomas John was going to be in San Diego, so I signed on to see him. There would be a lecture and for a little extra, there would be a breakfast for 10 people with Thomas, and he would do a reading.
I felt that Marc “told” me that he would be the first to speak; he would make himself heard by me.
Sure enough, at the breakfast, Thomas said “I’m hearing from someone whose name begins with an “M”- I said, “It’s Marc! He told me he’d be the first to come through.” Thomas said “I’m seeing an accident.” Marc died in a car accident. To make a long story short, Thomas said all kinds of things that I wanted to hear, and felt it was Marc. Such as: Marc didn’t realize the Will situation would be so complicated, and he was sorry...Marc's transition to “the other side" was not a big deal.” Thomas said Marc was talking about a helicopter. I didn’t know what that was about. I said we rode a helicopter in Kauai, but didn’t know why that would be significant. Then suddenly I remembered he was airlifted in a medivac helicopter-- but I didn’t see that so forgot about it. During the workshop, Thomas suddenly said “I’m hearing Blue Suede Shoes”-- that was one of the songs I put into the slideshow I made of Marc’s life. It made me really happy that Marc knew about the slideshow, because he never did get to see it, on earth. In the weeks after he died, all I did was sit around and play that damn slideshow, grieving yet reminding myself Marc had a very full life.
So, I had a really fabulous experience with this particular medium. He lives in NY, but travels all over. Highly recommend him and his book if anyone is so inclined. I believe he has the gift, as explained in his book.
However, my son debunked everything, saying all this info could be found on the internet (e.g. online obituary and slideshow) and fed back to me. So that brought me down fast. But I don’t think he really did that research. There were too many people there!
Also, there was a woman there who said Thomas told her stuff about her father who died 30 years ago, and they didn’t write an obituary or anything, so there was no way he could know that stuff.
My time with that psychic gave me a lot of peace and help. Currently, I am moving forward and don’t feel a need to see another medium. Yet, if folks are feeling “stuck” maybe it would help to hear what your loved one wants to tell you. I truly believe some people have the gift to be able to communicate with those “on the other side."

Thank you kk, I am so pleased you found comfort with a medium. I have many friends who have visited mediums and have come away feeling such peace. I am a pretty open minded person and I can't believe that when you die, that's it. There has to be something more. I believe that spirits still stand beside us. Who has not experienced such things as de ja vu? Or felt a presence that's un explainable. I know there are quacks out there that take advantage of those that grieve, but the one I am thinking of seeing has been highly recommended and knew things that could not be looked up and only close relatives would have no. I truly appreciate your input. If and when I go, I will update you. Hugs and Love, Michele

I read “Hello From Heaven” and am now fully convinced there is life after death, and they want to and can communicate with us. And it doesn’t have to be scary or weird! Loving and joyful is more like it.
That book was a big comfort and matched and validated some of my own experiences!

Dear Michele, I think you need to do whatever gives you peace. You have had such a struggle these last few months and i admire the way you are able to express your grief. This maybe another step on your journey to finding the peace. Have a good day-Hugs, Patti

Oh No!!! I am so sorry this happened to you! There are always crooks in every business aren't there? I am glad you contacted your credit card company. Hope you can get those charges dropped! This world we live in has become so sad. So few can be trusted it seems. Good luck and hugs and love, Michele

Mincele, what and who are you talk to and about in your last writing. Are you speak to spirits?

I do believe in spirits but would NEVER give anyone $$$$ to contact them for me.

Roz ♥

OMG! The spelling errors are almost comical, sorry!

I must have missed something here?? Who got scammed? Yes charlatans abound out there. Otherwise, there really are good psychic/mediums. Ask around for references and not just the yellow page type advertisement!

ha ha ha Roz, thought you were possesed there for a minute. I have yet to contact a medium. There is one near Omaha that I have heard is very good. I saw her in a group setting a couple of years ago. My daughter has been to her as well as several members of my girlfriends family. At some point I would like to have a private reading, but not just yet. One thing at a time I guess. Hugs and Love to all, Michele

Michele, wasn't that funny, or what? I was possessed by spirits.

I'm very much a black & white kind of gal. If you're lying to me, I can see right through you. But, that said, I am a dreamer when it comes to life.....I do believe in fairytales & prince charming [I should, I was married to him] and, that there is good in all people! And, then Prince Charming died.......

I've watched the Long Island Medium and I do believe that she's visited by spirits and, although, she makes a darn good living off of it, I think she's genuine.

I'm one of those very intuitive people.......I've been seeing spirits since I was a child. I talked to them [my siblings thought I was crazy and my parents thought I had a very vivid imagination, but I knew.]

When I first met Morey I shared it with him and he said it's what intrigued him to ask me out again. I feel very lucky to be able to do this, it can be very comforting. I have found a way to ask spirits to go away and leave me alone and, they do. When I need them they can come back.....sometimes they're as stubborn as me!

Roz ♥