Video Game Addiction Support Group
Game addiction is a form of psychological addiction related to a compulsive use of computer and video games. People suffering from this form of addiction may experience intense cravings to play the game and may also suffer symptoms of withdrawal when they stop playing the game. Meet with friendly, supportive people sharing their experiences with Video Game Addiction.
My bf claims that playing Destiny on ps4 is his way to cope with his unhappiness within himself. It is his way to escape reality and feel alive. I want him to be happy but it seems like his online buddies (whom he never met) bring him more joy than I can ever do. He is a different person when he engages online. The tone of his voice is different and so is his laugh. I feel like these strangers connect with him in a way that I can't and to be honest it makes me very jealous. I don't want to be the bitchy gf but I feel left out and unwanted when he spends his time playing with his clan buddies. We've had several arguments and discussions about him paying more attention to his game than to me and the dogs. I don't know what else to do... I'm in a situation where I can leave the relationship.
Fighting and nagging him will only make him resent you. The best thing you can do is to detach from his gaming choices and look after you. Maybe better you find someone new who does not have a problem with gaming or other addiction. I found helpful advice at Olganon.org on the forum for spouses and partners of gamers.