Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
My ex often sent me texts that were meant for someone else.frequently,I think they were mistakes but there were little instances when he did it to play games. I remember one time when he sent me a text that went something like "when are you coming?" I could not get it out of my head because it gave me a strange feeling...it was out of the blue... Shortly after he rushed over to my house unexpectedly with his little sister looking nervous. we talked and flirted a bit then he went into the bathroom and started fixing his hair and looking at his face (as usual). Then he told me that he and his sister were getting ready to go to his soccer game and they left. When he was gone a strange feeling came over me like i was being fooled or something. clearly, he was up to something
He couldn't keep up with with all the girls that he was texting
He couldn't keep up with with all the girls that he was texting
Aniijo
mine did the exact same thing. texted girls right in front of me on my couch and ignored me while he was having a fun time texting them. he could touc my phone but i couldnt touch his
Aniijo
lol
deleted_user
Yup. My soon to be ex-hub told me he had an affair with karate mom at cheap hotel 10 times no condom. Later when I told custody mediator that he said that to me he said I had it all wrong. Don't know the exact truth you never do with a sociopath. You have to hear it from others, but I think he was trying to make me think other woman wanted him. Another woman he was conquesting didn't want him. She told him she didn't want a relationship because she was going thru a divorce only to fall madly in love with someone else the next month. But I think they love themselves so much thru their own distorted lenses that they really don't have a scope of what is going on or what people really think of them. Mine soon to be ex has aspergers also so that is working against him.
AgentSmith
Ha, this reminds me of one of my early psychopaths. He was a total player. This was long before I really knew anything about psychopathy and was believing all his crap. He was a cop. One day, we were standing in his kitchen just talking and flirting and I grabbed his cuffs and playfully handcuffed him. Well THEN his cell phone rings, in his pocket. He's like "just let it go to voicemail." I decide to reach in his pocket for it. He can't do a damn thing because he's handcuffed!! He fought like hell to try to keep me out of his pocket! He was trying to pinch my arm between him and the counter, twisting and writhing, like it would have been the end of the world for me to get his phone. Red flags... *sigh*
LiveInTruth
Mine texted other women/ and men right in front of me and would have some conversations (in a different language) in front of me also. He never hid his phone, computer or anything. Just carried on right in front of me. I have never been nosy or jealous so it never occurred to me that he was doing anything inappropriate. I only found out what he was really up to after D-Day cause he left everything he owned behind (and I stole his phone) so I could dig at my own pace. Oh the stuff I found! I also still have the feeling that inside he must have thought how stupid I was that he was doing these things right under my nose and here I was folding his underwear and cooking his dinner every night. Peaceful, laughing, and in love. This is what makes me so angry still. I was fooled. I hate that.
bellanomore
mine used to talk to me on im and I would get random things sent during our conversation that made no sense. I knew when this happened what it meant , he wasn't just typing to me. there would be lapses on his part during the conversation and he would always say ..ohh its a bad connection my computer freezes. I guess at the time I wanted to believe him but deep down I never did I knew what he was doing. that makes it even more pathetic.
Gigi0007
My last sociopath and I were not always able to live together since we had both lost everything job home etc. We both had agreements to see other people since neither one of us was in a position to make a commitment to anything,. We both texted other people and would share or information with each other it amused us .. Was a weird relationship.. He wanted me to be commited but he wasnt going to be. I am not spanish I told him. He was Puerto Rican and thats there stereotype
deleted_user
Mine used to never care where his phone was and even left it in the living room or another room and I could be alone in the room, but he a few times turned off his phone...could have been because he would sleep without disturbances...but I had a feeling sometimes that he hid something..maybe having multiple phones, numbers or something...he never cared if I saw who was calling either and it was always his friends...but I still had that feeling that he was afraid sometimes...if he was in the bathroom he could open the door quickly to see what I was doing...looking at his phone or not, when I was just in closet beside the desk...
deleted_user
And one time I got a quite same text after the first texts saying about the same, that he is home/making dinner... it looked like he might sent same texts to different woman and had forgotten that he had just texted me...I dont know...,but it was weird
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