Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
I hate this almost more than anything. When I was contacted by the OW she had waited months to do it because he told her "she is brilliant and will mind screw you". He also had told her I was crazy, psycho, stalker etc. He told her he wanted to take our child, whom he's never acknowledge, away from me because I was a horrible parent. He said I was having sex with so many men that I needed a DNA test to prove it was his. He said my family was really wealthy and that's why I didn't think he could get our child. He said I refused to allow him to see our child. It goes on and on. They are all lies. The part that hurt the most to lie about.our child. By no means am I perfect parent but I'm good. My kids are my number #1. I have two great, smart and well behaved kids.
Everything he said about me was a lie. Just makes me sick.
Everything he said about me was a lie. Just makes me sick.
I was a drug addict. (I take one sleeping pill at night for severe insomnia.) At the end of the month, he said I went crazy because I was jonesing for more drugs. (I run out of my sleeping pill at the end of the month, can't sleep for several days, and am irritable.) He said I was on a truckload of xanax. I am not on xanax.
He said I was on SS disability for mental illness. I am on disability for auto-immune disorders and I had showed him the determination papers. He knew what I was on disability for.
He told someone I filed rape charges against him. I did no such thing. I filed a complaint for assault and domestic violence. His charges are online.
This is a very small sampling of his lies. Everything he said about me, except for the rpae charges, is something true about himself.
I know the smear-campaigning hurts so horribly you think you will never get over it, but you will. In time, You will consider the source and it will all seem ridiculous and pathetic. It is almost impossible for me to believe, now that I am back in reality, that there are actually people out there who believe that nutjob.
She's involved with a man who likes (using and abusing) little girls. Nothing she says or does can make me forget that and say öh, she's right, it's all my fault, I wasn't good enough".
It took me a long time to understand that someone who is being abusive to someone else and nice to me, is still abusive and capable of abuse and there really is no excuse for that.
There is no way to even count the number of ways in which they lie and cheat every moment of their lives. .
He may have had a round or so with her since I left him. I don't care what he's done, who he's done it with, or what he has said about me.
Now I care about what he did to me, and what it has done to me--my PTSD--and how to get well and live again.
What a POS. I gave the police the wrong SD card when I filed the DV charge--I thought it was of my bruises. I had a new Windows 8 computer (he had destoryed my other one) and I didn't know how it read an SD card. I had never seen these videos he had taken in my home. The police called me back down there to explain the videos. They made me sick. But there was NO abusive behavior by me on them, in multiple such videos. Though XP was obviously trying very hard to create the appearance of it.
Right from the beginning, his intentions were pure Evil. Always.