Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
After 5 days of silence, he text me again saying he is gonna come to see me because he has to talk to me. I have no idea how he is gonna do that if I don t answer and I ll be working all day but..... He keeps forcing his presence coming into the building. I would prefer not to do a restraining order but if I really be force to do so from his behavior, does anyone knows how does it works? Do I have to go to court and see him? Or it will be just paperwork??
You are right about the study part. I remember when he was insulting me, he would tell me all the hurtful personal stuff in my life to make me feel bad. It's horrible uh?
Are you saying they suffer for the fact they realize who they are?
No , they suffer when the fake persona is revealed to the outside world. Not you, because he is well aware that you have seen the 'real' person, he just gaslights you into believing you are bonkers and you can't trust your own judgement. But exposure to the people that think he is a nice person, or the life and soul of the party, or whatever mask of sanity he chooses to wear.
Everything is ammunition to these spiteful, envious, self serving b*****ds ... my ex psycho threw things in my face that happened 20 years ago .. long before I ever met him .. things I told him (as you do) ... usually to justify his claims that I am selfish or nasty or whatever ... !