OK....the story....gonna try to keep it as short as possible. Yeesh. In early December while taking a romantic weekend and being blissfully unaware for almost 2 years, I became aware after a phone call that he was not who I thought him to be. I was told to check his Facebook page for some conversations that were taking place between my fiance and my 13 year old niece. Without telling him, I stole his phone and hijacked his page. I did not understand what is was that I was reading at first, it took me awhile, but I did insist on going home immediately to clear things up with my family. I believed him as he was GRASPING at straws all the way home (3 hours) and being the most loving partner one could dream about. When we arrived home, more truths began to emerge and he was forced to flee. He fled to his ex house with NOTHING and she hid him for the next 3 months. He underestimated exactly how intelligent I am and did not properly dispose of things on our electronic devices. I am in the technology field and he didn't even know that it was possible to pull things back from years prior, or that I would know how to do it. LOL. Well I was obsessed and spent hundreds of hours going through every electronic device we had. Wow....the things I found. He has been sleeping with more than 30 women, including teenagers. Watching pornography about "kids", men, anal rape, and animals obsessively while I was at work. I was able to look at date stamps and put a time line together of lies, his whereabouts, and mostly what he was up to. Pretty much our entire life was nothing but one big lie, he told very little truth in anything. I began showing his friends and family the evidence of what I was discovering and they started opening their mouths about stuff I didn't know. Each person had just a little bit to contribute as he was careful that no one knew too much. It started to create a full picture of a man who had stolen and squandered at least 30 thousand dollars from our loved ones in the previous year. No one really knew who to blame until the big picture came to be. He counted on that and that was why he got away with things for so long. If you spread the shit around to enough people then it takes longer to get caught. He also was sleeping with men, hiring hookers, being completely unfaithful, and lying to everyone. I took all of the evidence especially the teenagers and the porn to the police. Yes I did their dirty work and yes I kept after them week after week until they got so sick of me that they finally called in the Feds to help and locate him. I was able to convince his ex who was hiding him that he was in fact a danger to her and her kids by secretly showing her the evidence that the police had. She agreed to play ball and with a "sting" in place he was arrested by the Feds in early March. They tried everything they could to get anything to stick. It was difficult. I was in contact with the local and federal police constantly and without me annoying the crap out of them I am sure that things would have been shelved until they ran into him. I wasn't going for this because I didn't think it was right that he has another go and actually rapes a young girl and then they find him. The police had a clear picture and I just had to pressure. Basically I told them that if they did not put forth the effort to pursue this man knowing that he was a danger that when he did physically hurt someone, I would be going to the media and they would know that he was not actively pursued and allowed to remain on the street. I think they saw a nightmare in the making. They became more participating after that. He was picked up with 56 cents in his pocket and winter clothes. Nothing else. They wanted him in prison but that would have entailed a very long trial (he said she said) that would have been VERY difficult on me. I did not think I would make it through that. So I wrote the federal judge a letter, completed my own reports through the feds, became friends with the arresting agent, and hounded the local police to stay involved. He was denied bond, deported in hot weather with winter clothing a long ways from his home. Everything is out in the open now. His family and friends are disgusted with him and have a very clear picture of who he is. We are all doing better without him here. He will never have the life back that he worked so hard to build. So you see....he screwed with everyone he knew, did some terrible things, and then left all the evidence. He helped do all of this. Without his help I would never have been able to do anything to him, he would have just moved on, and I would have been left standing there thinking it was me. So that's why I say not so much karma as the end of the gravy train for him. I'm glad he underestimated my intelligence and tenacity.

LiveInTruth, YOU ARE MY HERO!!!

Wow, what you did reminds me so much of what I'm going through now with this P. I got the feds involved, I got local police involved. I don't feel like they care. So I'm thinking of threatening with media action now. I know this story is bad enough to easily make it into the media. I've gone to people he knows and other victims and found out more of the truth and am exposing the truth to everyone, little by little. He definitely underestimated me as a victim, as yours did. If you get a chance, maybe you can read my recent journals all about it. I can't post it publicly yet since there are ongoing investigations.

Awesome, both Live In Truth and Agent Smith!!! We need more like you! It takes great strength to keep facing so much, and take the trouble and risk to keep pursuing it. THANK YOU!

Sometimes enough is enough!!!

Wow Liveintruth!!! What a sicko!!! Congratulations in uncovering him!