Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
hi,
i'm very upset.There is a guy who is stalking me for over 2 yrs.He is an aquantance who i met 4 or 5 times in life.
ive been suffering from a life threatening illness for the past few yrs, it got worse gradually over the past few yrs. by 2011 i was homebound , only leaving home to go to dr appointments, hospital, pick up things from drugstore, supermarket.
so i guess im more vulnerable to being stalked becuause i have been going through a hard time to begin with, plus emotionally weak.
he ran into me at a store one time in 2010,atleast i think that was a coincidence
then i left to go home, he invited me to meet him days later. due to being sick at home i didnt go, rejected him.
it was weird because he seemed to be upset or angry that i didnt go to see him. after that weird things started to happen. i started seeing things about me written on his webpage and his social networking webpages.
also talking about me on his youtube channel.
i figured it was my fault, i felt guilty like maybe he just misses me because i left the day without talking to him.
i thought like his weird behavior was my fault.
the weird things being put up about me on his websites continue even until today.. but i noticed within a few months he hacked into my home computer. he knows where i live, my name, enough info to find me where i am.
he hacked my computer hard drive, began talking about things i wrote in my password protected live journal account and other activity i did online, things i wrote,websites i visited, etc that no one who hasnt used my computer would know about. he must have gotten the passwords to my internet accounts by key logging or other things
i think he went far as to hack into my cell phone, he might have hired a private investigator because he followed me onto the net, followed me into chat rooms pretending to be different people, made up different indentitites. then he wanted me to think im losing my mind or paranoid by telling me personal things about myself my family, things about him only he would know. to make me paranoid.
one time he followed me into a chat room sent me a message telling me he is the guy i ran into at the store, then telling me perverted comments, then cursing at me. he admitted to me it is him following me in chat rooms, hacking my computer by dping that. he told me he is angry that i didnt stop to talk to him.
he made up another identity online (catfish) in order to talk to me, for months i didnt realize anything. he would tell me he loved me, other weird things. then ask to see me on the webcam. he told me he is angry i wont send him pictures or go on webcam.later on he began telling me hints, things no one knows, that it is him. but by using 1 or 2 clue words. like he would tell me he picked up a brochure for a mexico vacation. when a few days before the guy stalker wrote on his real facebook that he is in mexico for the week.
other things using code words to make me think im going crazy,
i realised a few weeks ago who it is, i got proof , another chatter in the chatroom helped by finding out about him and i understood better so i stopped answering his text messsages on messenger.
but he tried to contact me still even tho i didnt answer the messages. then because i didnt answer he posted things directed at me on his facebook account to terrorize me about hacking my comp
he made 10 or 15 fake identities online, even pretended to be a woman once, telling me the same things, threetening me, telling me personal things about me, like stuff that is written on my birth certificate, things about my family members immigration status, my personal health record information,court information. things connected to my social security number. he told me things even most family members of mine dont know.
he would tell me that he bugged my parents home where i live, with hidden cameras. he told me hes watching me, can see me in my home.
he told me that he can hear my cell phone calls and he repeated back to me certain ohrases and personal things i talked to my parents on the phone about.
he even told me weird personal details about me like what i ate for lunch that day, what color shoes im wearing.. etc i didnt wamt to be creeped out so i ignored it. but he was correct about them
my parents dont listen to me, they dont care or want to talk to me, so ive been alone on this with no one to talk to. they dont care when i told them someone is bothering, stelking me. he knows alot about me, more than even neighbors or long time friends would know. he must have done serious stalking, monitoring of my families daily life, dug up everything there is connected to my social security number, maybe he hired a detective. i dont know, but i never saw anyone following me around when i go out of the house
he knew the name of my elderly grandmothers nurse.
i know he is a sociopath/psychopath. he fits every sign of being a psychopath, i didnt even realize it until he was mean or i actually came to my senses understood whats been going on the last few years.
i think by finding info on me he found out personal things that im more vulnerable than most people.so he thinks he can bother me.
ivee been very tired, in a haze with neuroligical impairments due to my life threetening illness, i wasnt sure if i would get this far or survive because i almost died a few times in the past 3 yrs due to my symptoms being severe. so ive been focused on that, at home trying to survive. i have terrible physical pain every day, terrible symptoms from my illness that disable me alot of the time. so i cannot work.
but over the last few weeks ive been able to think more normally like i used to, seeing things for how they are instead of pretending everything is ok. thats probably why i chatted to him for the time because had trouble understanding
things got worse in october tho, i had a mild tia stroke which kept me completely homebound. i havent gone out of the house the entire winter becauve ive been sleepy indoors due to that. too weak to even go anywhere
ive been focused on recovering physically, very very scared. at times i didnt think i would live. the stroke was due to the illness because if untreated it can go to that, my doctors havent found any cure for it yet.
but i think ill be okay physicelly, i found an idea for alternative thing to get well. but im fighting.....
but since my neuroligical symptoms are beggining to improve im become more full, alert to details things going on, emotions. im going crazy thinking about what the S did to me, just beggining to realize it. i havent felt anger in like years im beggining to feel this rage going kokoo freaked out at what the guy did.
i thought i would have panick attack, severely painful. im worried do not have peace of mind because of the stalking , humiliation, tricks, harrasment.
im a worry wart so i worry like 100 times a day about the same thing, even small things, i have like worry ocd about it. im sensitive so things upset me seriosely, then i cannot think of anything else for days.
im going nuts, not sure how to respond.
even tho i have to worry about getting well from my life threatening illness, i cennot even work or see any friends because of it. that this guy stalking me is getting in the way of this.now im thinking about that, worried about the S.
why did he stalk me, pretend to be different people? make up different identities like the catfish thing on the net.why did he type perverted things to me or tell me he loves me or ask to see me on cam or pics?
why is he writing things about me, making horrible remarks about me online. bullying?
he dosnt seem to care that im in pain every day or have a serios illness/disabilities to deal with. he was telling me weird thing like he wants to have a baby with me, told me he will rape me to have a baby, weird things.
he is a musician , he wrote horrible songs about me with non true things in them, accusing me of things that he made up, perverted horrible words in the songs. i couldnt pay attention to that because i was too sick to realize things. but im thinking about the songs he wrote and its creeping me out, stuff about me getting undressed, kissing him. other sicko things
he is taunting me on his webpage, twitter about how he has written recorded new songs about me to put on the new cd his band is recording. i heard some of the lyrics and its horrible what it says.
its strange, i dont know whats going on in his mind. i never went on any date with him or kissed him or any romantic relationship with him but he thinks im his girlfriend i think. in his mind.
he is married too. i think he is fabricating rumors about me, or twisting true facts to e mean, pick on me.
he somehow got my cell phone number which no one but my parents have and his wife called me up to make loud sex noises moaning into the phone .. that is creepy. i kept getting phone calls from the blocked number to harrass me. i have problems hearing sexual things because of trauma abuse i went through as child, it triggers some ptsd. i feel like disgusted, corrupted i dont need to be around that thing
the new song i heard from his band is about how im trying to steal her husband and how she called me on the phone to do revenge at me so that i dont try to marry him instead, it talks about me how i heard the sound of them doing sex . that i cannot stop, break up their family, children, that she will fight against ,, with terrible insulting words in it against me, things about shooting guns,blood ...
delusional. its gross because i never liked her husband. he must have been telling terrible rumors about me. do S create lies, rumors about people? they have kids . its insulting because i cannot have children or marry due to my illness. she is bragging, picking on me victimising me. so that he dosnt look bad.. i might even die from my illness in even a few months and they would be singing that about me, not even care
those are bad people. she has an antisocial personality disorder too, histrionic i think. which explains the drama, jump to conclusions, believe everything, exhibitionist, terrorize people,attention
anyway their cd the entire thing is aboiut bashing and humiliating me. even tho im in terrible pain every day they dont care. no conscience.
he is married so why is he stalking me, telling me he loves me
ive never been in any relationship, there was never any romance with him.
i think he wants to create drama, make me nervous or make me feel bad about myself. i dont even know why.
he calls me derogetory words over the net, whore etc even tho i never kissed eny guy ever or been on a date
why did i become the target. im trying to think of why, find answers but theres none. maybe he spotted a weak, empathetic person. i dont know.
why am i focused on him when i need to focus on saving my life? i guess i think i should multitask, take care of everything.
im humiliated by the songs about me that they are putting on their new cd to sing for live audiences. it sounds horrible. derogetory., laughing at me, making fun of me
how do i deal with cruelty from people who dont care. ive become a target to bully, i try to avoid people
i heve no peace of mind. i have no one to talk to about this, so im venting here. i really need good things, not people picking on me or psychopaths terrorizing , bullying
i'm very upset.There is a guy who is stalking me for over 2 yrs.He is an aquantance who i met 4 or 5 times in life.
ive been suffering from a life threatening illness for the past few yrs, it got worse gradually over the past few yrs. by 2011 i was homebound , only leaving home to go to dr appointments, hospital, pick up things from drugstore, supermarket.
so i guess im more vulnerable to being stalked becuause i have been going through a hard time to begin with, plus emotionally weak.
he ran into me at a store one time in 2010,atleast i think that was a coincidence
then i left to go home, he invited me to meet him days later. due to being sick at home i didnt go, rejected him.
it was weird because he seemed to be upset or angry that i didnt go to see him. after that weird things started to happen. i started seeing things about me written on his webpage and his social networking webpages.
also talking about me on his youtube channel.
i figured it was my fault, i felt guilty like maybe he just misses me because i left the day without talking to him.
i thought like his weird behavior was my fault.
the weird things being put up about me on his websites continue even until today.. but i noticed within a few months he hacked into my home computer. he knows where i live, my name, enough info to find me where i am.
he hacked my computer hard drive, began talking about things i wrote in my password protected live journal account and other activity i did online, things i wrote,websites i visited, etc that no one who hasnt used my computer would know about. he must have gotten the passwords to my internet accounts by key logging or other things
i think he went far as to hack into my cell phone, he might have hired a private investigator because he followed me onto the net, followed me into chat rooms pretending to be different people, made up different indentitites. then he wanted me to think im losing my mind or paranoid by telling me personal things about myself my family, things about him only he would know. to make me paranoid.
one time he followed me into a chat room sent me a message telling me he is the guy i ran into at the store, then telling me perverted comments, then cursing at me. he admitted to me it is him following me in chat rooms, hacking my computer by dping that. he told me he is angry that i didnt stop to talk to him.
he made up another identity online (catfish) in order to talk to me, for months i didnt realize anything. he would tell me he loved me, other weird things. then ask to see me on the webcam. he told me he is angry i wont send him pictures or go on webcam.later on he began telling me hints, things no one knows, that it is him. but by using 1 or 2 clue words. like he would tell me he picked up a brochure for a mexico vacation. when a few days before the guy stalker wrote on his real facebook that he is in mexico for the week.
other things using code words to make me think im going crazy,
i realised a few weeks ago who it is, i got proof , another chatter in the chatroom helped by finding out about him and i understood better so i stopped answering his text messsages on messenger.
but he tried to contact me still even tho i didnt answer the messages. then because i didnt answer he posted things directed at me on his facebook account to terrorize me about hacking my comp
he made 10 or 15 fake identities online, even pretended to be a woman once, telling me the same things, threetening me, telling me personal things about me, like stuff that is written on my birth certificate, things about my family members immigration status, my personal health record information,court information. things connected to my social security number. he told me things even most family members of mine dont know.
he would tell me that he bugged my parents home where i live, with hidden cameras. he told me hes watching me, can see me in my home.
he told me that he can hear my cell phone calls and he repeated back to me certain ohrases and personal things i talked to my parents on the phone about.
he even told me weird personal details about me like what i ate for lunch that day, what color shoes im wearing.. etc i didnt wamt to be creeped out so i ignored it. but he was correct about them
my parents dont listen to me, they dont care or want to talk to me, so ive been alone on this with no one to talk to. they dont care when i told them someone is bothering, stelking me. he knows alot about me, more than even neighbors or long time friends would know. he must have done serious stalking, monitoring of my families daily life, dug up everything there is connected to my social security number, maybe he hired a detective. i dont know, but i never saw anyone following me around when i go out of the house
he knew the name of my elderly grandmothers nurse.
i know he is a sociopath/psychopath. he fits every sign of being a psychopath, i didnt even realize it until he was mean or i actually came to my senses understood whats been going on the last few years.
i think by finding info on me he found out personal things that im more vulnerable than most people.so he thinks he can bother me.
ivee been very tired, in a haze with neuroligical impairments due to my life threetening illness, i wasnt sure if i would get this far or survive because i almost died a few times in the past 3 yrs due to my symptoms being severe. so ive been focused on that, at home trying to survive. i have terrible physical pain every day, terrible symptoms from my illness that disable me alot of the time. so i cannot work.
but over the last few weeks ive been able to think more normally like i used to, seeing things for how they are instead of pretending everything is ok. thats probably why i chatted to him for the time because had trouble understanding
things got worse in october tho, i had a mild tia stroke which kept me completely homebound. i havent gone out of the house the entire winter becauve ive been sleepy indoors due to that. too weak to even go anywhere
ive been focused on recovering physically, very very scared. at times i didnt think i would live. the stroke was due to the illness because if untreated it can go to that, my doctors havent found any cure for it yet.
but i think ill be okay physicelly, i found an idea for alternative thing to get well. but im fighting.....
but since my neuroligical symptoms are beggining to improve im become more full, alert to details things going on, emotions. im going crazy thinking about what the S did to me, just beggining to realize it. i havent felt anger in like years im beggining to feel this rage going kokoo freaked out at what the guy did.
i thought i would have panick attack, severely painful. im worried do not have peace of mind because of the stalking , humiliation, tricks, harrasment.
im a worry wart so i worry like 100 times a day about the same thing, even small things, i have like worry ocd about it. im sensitive so things upset me seriosely, then i cannot think of anything else for days.
im going nuts, not sure how to respond.
even tho i have to worry about getting well from my life threatening illness, i cennot even work or see any friends because of it. that this guy stalking me is getting in the way of this.now im thinking about that, worried about the S.
why did he stalk me, pretend to be different people? make up different identities like the catfish thing on the net.why did he type perverted things to me or tell me he loves me or ask to see me on cam or pics?
why is he writing things about me, making horrible remarks about me online. bullying?
he dosnt seem to care that im in pain every day or have a serios illness/disabilities to deal with. he was telling me weird thing like he wants to have a baby with me, told me he will rape me to have a baby, weird things.
he is a musician , he wrote horrible songs about me with non true things in them, accusing me of things that he made up, perverted horrible words in the songs. i couldnt pay attention to that because i was too sick to realize things. but im thinking about the songs he wrote and its creeping me out, stuff about me getting undressed, kissing him. other sicko things
he is taunting me on his webpage, twitter about how he has written recorded new songs about me to put on the new cd his band is recording. i heard some of the lyrics and its horrible what it says.
its strange, i dont know whats going on in his mind. i never went on any date with him or kissed him or any romantic relationship with him but he thinks im his girlfriend i think. in his mind.
he is married too. i think he is fabricating rumors about me, or twisting true facts to e mean, pick on me.
he somehow got my cell phone number which no one but my parents have and his wife called me up to make loud sex noises moaning into the phone .. that is creepy. i kept getting phone calls from the blocked number to harrass me. i have problems hearing sexual things because of trauma abuse i went through as child, it triggers some ptsd. i feel like disgusted, corrupted i dont need to be around that thing
the new song i heard from his band is about how im trying to steal her husband and how she called me on the phone to do revenge at me so that i dont try to marry him instead, it talks about me how i heard the sound of them doing sex . that i cannot stop, break up their family, children, that she will fight against ,, with terrible insulting words in it against me, things about shooting guns,blood ...
delusional. its gross because i never liked her husband. he must have been telling terrible rumors about me. do S create lies, rumors about people? they have kids . its insulting because i cannot have children or marry due to my illness. she is bragging, picking on me victimising me. so that he dosnt look bad.. i might even die from my illness in even a few months and they would be singing that about me, not even care
those are bad people. she has an antisocial personality disorder too, histrionic i think. which explains the drama, jump to conclusions, believe everything, exhibitionist, terrorize people,attention
anyway their cd the entire thing is aboiut bashing and humiliating me. even tho im in terrible pain every day they dont care. no conscience.
he is married so why is he stalking me, telling me he loves me
ive never been in any relationship, there was never any romance with him.
i think he wants to create drama, make me nervous or make me feel bad about myself. i dont even know why.
he calls me derogetory words over the net, whore etc even tho i never kissed eny guy ever or been on a date
why did i become the target. im trying to think of why, find answers but theres none. maybe he spotted a weak, empathetic person. i dont know.
why am i focused on him when i need to focus on saving my life? i guess i think i should multitask, take care of everything.
im humiliated by the songs about me that they are putting on their new cd to sing for live audiences. it sounds horrible. derogetory., laughing at me, making fun of me
how do i deal with cruelty from people who dont care. ive become a target to bully, i try to avoid people
i heve no peace of mind. i have no one to talk to about this, so im venting here. i really need good things, not people picking on me or psychopaths terrorizing , bullying
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He is probably a seasoned stalker and knows how to go about getting information, maybe he is a computer whiz who knows, maybe a third party is giving him information. Do you have proof of these threats? I am not sure if you realize this but if you do, you have enough evidence to get this man in serious trouble. Depending on the duration of the stalking it can be considered a misdemeanor or a felony in certain states. I came across this website http://tech2stalk.com/ it is an actual course that will educate you how people cyber stalk. Not sure if there is a cost involved for taking it?? And http://www.victimsofcrime.org/our-programs/stalking-resource-center/stalking-laws/criminal-stalking-laws-by-state Stalking laws in your state.
Call the police, take all the evidence to them, if you are having trouble with a police officer talk to their sergeant in command. Tell them that you are afraid for your life, tell them about your situation. They can run his background to see if he has any prior arrests for stalking. Which he probably does, I am sure you are not the only one he is doing this to. It is going to be hard and consume all of your time and energy, but it is worth not having to live the way you are living right now. Who knows what is going through his head, I am not saying that he won’t act on his threats but there is a big chance that he is just playing a game with you, he has been stalking you for two years. Just be safe before you take any big steps! You can either fight back or live your life in fear.
he didnt send me email but i have the conversations from the im's saved on my messenger account. those were from him while he was pretending to be a fake person from the middle east, pakistan. someone who was another internet so called friend in the chat room did me a favor and got his computer tech genius frend to get into the arab guys ip and computer find out what he is doing to me, why he is sending me these messages. it turns out that he found messages saved on this guys computer files and email of messages sent by a guy in america to pass on to me.
to cover his tracks on the internet, my stalker the guy actually had a middleman to confuse me like a 3 way conference chat. he would send the messages first to the arab guy in the middle east and then have him type them,paste them to me, so that i trace the messages to an ip in the middle east instead of to his comp .which i understand now better because he always chose the same time of the day to be online and talk to me. whenever the arab guy was available to be online in his part of the world.
the chat room compter genius guy who was helping me to track my S had difficulty to track the computer or ip of the 3rd party sending the phrases and messages from the us. it said his routing or something was severly blocked or rerouted to many places in the us or remote something that he could not trace it back to one computer.
but my stalker has a lot of computer training, knows alot of things about computers, has built computer programs,aps, webpages from nothing and knows others who are also computer geniuses, and has a freind or cousin who was in the military who might know these things, he has connections to many people
also i might need to bring my computer to a professional place because the virus he sent me disabled my computer from installnig any new programs,and he blocked my internet from going to the google.com website. i forgot so i wont be able to install , download any antivrus programs. also am having trouble with flasplayer and flash media websites. i dont know if thats connected to a virus.
but i had to go to intenet explorer to see youtube videos or any video . it works on internet explorer but no video or flasplayer works or will install on firefo internet, it used to months ago
google "wireless easy to hack"----there's even a title there with "how i hacked my neighbors wifi password."
change your phone number---and pay the $3/whatever extra a month to have your # unlisted.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/03/03/stalkers-turn-to-cell-pho_n_171555.html
yes, to maleware bytes.
and avast.....spybot....cc cleaner----I have all 4, free, just to fight any virus.
never/ever open any e-mail unless you know where its from....nothing but viruses; curiosity about unsolicited email will always give you viruses.
a bunch of ways to maybe get rid of a virus on your own:
1) click start, for help and support----SYSTEM RESTORE to go back to some date when computer ok.
2) start...control panel...internet options...advanced...."RESET"----hit reset a few times; seems to work for me.
3) microsoft online will check your computer for free----just make sure its a REAL microsoft site.....never ever ever download free help thats advertised all over; all that free help is viruses....and are fake micosoft sites.
i'm stupid, and can figure this out, thanks to search engines and trial and error; there are very few geniuses in the world---and almost all are millionaires with busy lives.
and sorry, i wouldnt trust a chat room computer repairman with my senstive, personal, information.
I cant post too much about it because i have sort legal advice and have things going on in the works.
Best advice i can give you hun is to take your computer to a tech, i took my other computer to a tech and he did a clean install. The one im on now still has something on it. I tried to fix this one myself because i wanted to know what i had. These are some of the things i've found so far. There is still more i havn't been able to detect yet as my firewall has 314 intrusion/hacker alerts logged for the last 3 days. I reset the counter 3 days ago so thats an excessive amount.
IPvmons
Virtool.win32.obfuscator
rootkit.win32.sirefef
Trojan.Win32.Mal.gen!b58
Virtool.win32.mal.gen!b56
If you have a rootkit it will be really difficult to dis-infect your computer completely so take it to a tech. There are programmes online you can use but alot of times they leave something behind.
i shouldt have talked to the chat room repairman, that was dumb i think. i didnt give him my information but i gave out the screenname the of the stalker. but i guess if he can hack into his computer then he might also get to my computer and information. but i changed my password on that site since.
i need to be more careful, use more common sense around internet strangers. in these days the internetis getting worse with my generation and college kids teenagers these days it seems everyone shares too much on the internet. no one protects their privacy anymore which is horrible and strange. people treat me like an outsider or that im strange for not wanting to post photos or videos of myself on the internet. im the only one my age who i know that dosnt.
i go to face book or look at social sites, twtter, myspace, pinterest, and i see everyone oversharing about every detail of their day and life. posting photos of what they ate for lunch or pics with their brother at his graduation dinner, famly reunion photos, pics with their great uncle bill at their familys reunion, photos of their cat next to ther 2 yr old neice. baby photos, childrens photos, photos from their 5 yr old neices birthday party. pics of them shopping at kmart, food they cooked etc these pctures are not everyones business.
i dont post on facebook but i go to read what family members are saying or see whats up with people i went to school with years ago. do people understand privacy anymore or being anonymous or havng an identity or pride to protect. i feel like its almost some type of child abuse to allow the 400 people on your facebook list to see the 100 pics you posted of your child crawling, their first tooth, videos of them walking, eating cake at their first brthday party.
due to facebook and social media children these days are being watched in their childhood by everyone their parents met or went to school with. growing up infront of audiences. i wouldnt be to happy if everyone my parents knew over their life saw pics of my school plays or when i lost my first tooth or my 3rd birthday party, blog documents of my childhood for the world to see.
you can even log in, check in on thesocial sites saying where you are currently. like im at parrot park cofee shop at 241 north street anytown,mi with becky miller etc.. or it will say sharon checked in to to barrel oak library with bob parker and sue anderson 30 min ago. that lets people know where you are one of them could be a stalker or friend of someone on your friend list. that is dumb
If you click on the links at the bottom of that page, they are very informative.
LOL, I like what penntucky posted..... "i'm stupid, and can figure this out, thanks to search engines and trial and error; " Haha...yep am with ya!
Your life has gone down an unexpected route, so maybe its best to follow it---ie start fooling around with your computer; maybe in a couple days of that you'll realize it doesnt take a genius for some of this stuff, including repairs.
I just had microsoft check out my computer a few minutes ago. Put "microsoft computer repair" in search engine---and make sure EVERYTHING involved says microsoft. Can't hurt, at this point.
And be sure passwords are long enough, with a mix of letters and numbers, to make them harder to crack.
change your yahoo/google address....yahoo is easy to change, and have # accounts, and with whatever name you want to put them in.
The lemonade from this lemon: you haven't lost thousands of dollars to some fake online lottery, or some nigerian offering you millions.