Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
A question for who know more than me! How P react when they learn we, their victim, had found a new partner? Do they leave us alone? Or they bother our life still?
It must be scary that someone goes crazy like that, breaking in your house.
Sometime I think my ex is not a P because he didn't try to contact me since few weeks. Maybe he is just a jerk.
They would do a FANTASTIC business!
The first one I encountered turned out to be a felon and registered sex offender. He had been married twice (one that he kept secret) and had 3 kids (two by a previous wife, one by an underage minor that he impregnated and was convicted of, thus becoming a sex offender). I only dated him a few months and it was pretty obvious that he was nuts and very violent. I quickly left and he stalked me for over a year, eventually convicted of it. After that he went on to commit many more crimes, including felonies and was arrested twice last year for arson, criminal damaging, and insurance fraud. He served more time in jail (also served in prison after the sex offense). It has been 5 yrs since I dated him and he never married again and died a few months ago at 38 yrs old (I'm guessing drug overdose judging by the mugshots from his two arrests last year).
I then met my 2nd P, the federal cop who was supposed to be helping with my case against the former P. He had been married 3x I think (if I remember correctly). He was an extreme sex addict, in his early 50s. More than likely a pedophile and was looking at Russian Mail Order Bridge websites from his govt computer at work. He sexually coerced me, I was half his age and scared for my life due to the 1st one stalking me. He knew he'd get in big trouble and always told me not to tell. Immediately discarded me afterward. A little research on him showed that he had written erotic novels including a novel basically detailing exactly what he did to me (published). He had been sued 25 times! He also stole all the confiscated weapons from our federal building and sold them at the local gun show (federal offense). He moved across country and will probably die alone. He's too screwed up to date a woman past the 1st sexual encounter.
The most recent one, after a 5 yr hiatus due to the trauma of the previous two, turned out to be another felon. On probation for 6 felonies. Big time con artist. Creates fraudulent identities, paperwork, documents, war medals, fake education history, work history, etc all to back up his fantasy world. Pretends to be a millionaire, doctor, stock broker, etc. Had been married twice before (tried to hide the 2nd one, which had just recently ended when she found out the truth about him). I found out everything about him was a lie. Found out he had a job at a college with fake credentials (exposed him), found out his ex wife, whom he had 2 kids with, that he was getting custody of every weekend, had no idea about what he was doing (exposed him), his probation officer didn't know (exposed him), etc. He's actually a drug addict who lost his nursing license due to prescription fraud/forgery. He was teaching at a college without the proper credentials (all revoked due to felonies). His ex knew nothing about his addiction or felonies or 2nd wife or anything but was giving her kids to him every weekend. I showed her everything. She cried. I went to the FBI, sheriff, local PD, etc. Informed everyone I could about him. He has probably lost his job by now, I know he lost his house and it was sold at sheriff's sale. He was desperately trolling the dating sites, trying to find a new victim to live with but wasn't able to. So I have no idea where he's living now. He's in debt past his eyeballs and owes everyone under the sun money. He's had a car repossessed within a couple months for never making a single payment (I let them know where he was working, so they could garnish the $8k he owed them). He was sued like 8 times in a few years for unpaid cash advance loans, never showed up to court for any of them. Yet he went around flaunting a giant wad of cash, dressed in nice clothes, pretending to be a millionaire all the time. With the extent of his criminal activities, I'd be extremely surprised if he doesn't end up in prison or dead like the 1st one.
I do believe it catches up to them. Just not fast enough.
One after the other!!! How terrible!
He knows how to work the system. He never pays his fines until he has to sit them out in jail which prison time overrides the fines & they magically disappear. He hasn't had his license due to child support but has never been to jail bc not only has he never went in front of a judge (he was in prison when it was set) but he can't sit still in one place long enough for him to get served. He is also the type that hides they literally have to get him.
So at a young age I was young, scared & fell into his pity parties big time. And I was convinced he was such a good liar that I'd get into trouble (plus the threats). He was the type to hit me and take my fist and punch himself.
I met the devil