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Nutellina 03/28/2013

This morning he sent me few messages saying I have STD and he had to get treated. He said he is not upset with me but that it s not cool and that probably all my sexual partners ( like I was having a list of men I m sleeping with when I m totally alone) will have it too from me. Then he said "Peace and go get checked out. Your mother may need to also. It's easy to heal but you gotta go." What he is talking about!!!!! my mom??? what???
Then he said that probably I had miscarriage because of it, when he knows very well I ve had an aggression and I lost the baby because a punch in my stomach from a stranger.
What in reality happened is that I had a vaginal infection and I went at the doctor. I took exams, blood tests etc. and I was clean and the infection was because I was eating too many sweets. I show him the doctor results as well..... I told him to do the tests too just to be sure but he never did. He may be the one that had something.
He is such an as...... I m very upset. He also called me and left a message saying I need to go to the doctor, to call him as soon I heard the message, that he loves me and thinking about me all the time and that he was not upset with me even if he should!!
So he is being aggressive indirectly?? He is crazy.....

positivagirl 03/31/2013

It sounds like a normal psycho meltdown to me.

Its another way of trying to get you to communicate with him. He is trying all angles. You would think he had better things to do with his time than think of ingenious ways for you to speak to him.

He is

Upsetting you
Then offering to be your rescuer

It really is so ridiculous.

positivagirl 03/31/2013

I probably sound harsh their nutellina, but I am because --- there is no reason why he is saying this to you, apart from to try and manipulate you.

Remember humans operate with two primary emotions. The psycho doesnt feel these emotions. So - what he is doing is

Instilling fear
Then offering to give you love....

Its a trick and an illusion - and nonsense - just ignore him

deleted_user 03/31/2013

I know! They make you feel a little crazy. It is as positivegirl posted. It's all mind games to suck you back in. Bur I know exactly what you mean. I'm glad I found this group. Others around me don't want to understand me or I just don't want to share things with them because I'm ashamed that I keep running into these problematic men. I just find it hard to believe that there are so many men like this out there.

deleted_user 03/31/2013

I would completely avoid hi, though, if I were you. He has no right stressing you out. He probably caught a nasty STD and wants to put the blame on you. Avoid him! He is bad for your well being and health.

MovingOn74 04/01/2013

Please know that even if you take the routine STD exam at the doctor, you will not be tested for all STDs. Also, for some STDs, you have to be experiencing symptoms at the time of the exam in order to be diagnosed. If all you've had are yeast infections, you probably have nothing to worry about. However, if you develop cysts or blisters, painful urination, flu like symptoms, and/or god awful itching, definitely see a doctor right away. Sending you hugs!!!!

Nutellina 04/01/2013

Positiva you are not hash at all!
Yeah it seems he doesn't have anything else to do in his life. I 'm so busy and it seems crazy to me he is still trying to make me feel bad after the disasters he did in my life.

Nutellina 04/01/2013

Yye yeah I never reply to him or answered his calls since months....never ...and he still call and text....also yesterday saying "happy easter babe". He is out of his mind...would a normal person keep insisting like that/ he must feel very confident that I still want him....I really don't!

Nutellina 04/01/2013

MovingOn i don't have any syntoms since many months.....after I cut the sweets I don't have nothing .

MovingOn74 04/01/2013

Nutellina - Can you block his number or change your number? I honestly believe that will help you get away from him and his insane communications?

Nutellina 04/02/2013

I tried but the messages go throught anyway. I went to the phone company three times.
Also I did change my number but I have a two businesses and he can go in my websites anytime ( as he did) and find my number.

MovingOn74 04/02/2013

Sorry Nutellina. I do hope he gives up at some point and finds new supply. If he continues with these accusations, log all of his communications, get caller ID on your work phones, save any messages on your voicemail from him, and then file a harassment complaint against him once you have enough evidence. God, I'm SO glad my S/N cannot contact me anymore. I feel for you and send you all my best wishes.

deleted_user 04/02/2013

Yes! They're annoying like that! It's incredible how confident they are to hook you back in. They still want you to think that you're the 'one' for him. Just keep avoiding his messages. My last n/p/s ( with the 7 year old daughter) would "accidently message me as if he was messaging his daughter's cell phone. He went as far as contacting my brother to talk to me about getting back together. I don't even know how he got my brother's number? That was embarrassing because I don't involve my family in my relationship issues. They are annoying!!

Nutellina 04/02/2013

Yeah so today I called me back and left messages saying he apologize for what he said and he doesn't want I think that I walk around in the world dirty. Again that he misses me and he loves me.......yeah right!

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