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Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.

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Nutellina 03/08/2013

He sent me messages that he prays for me, he hopes I m well, he is thinking about me, etc. I kinda felt sorry for him. He doesn't ask me anything, just saying he prays for me. It' s been the first time I kinda felt to answer him back..... But I didn t. I'm not hiding the fact that I m thinking that maybe he understood his mistakes because he asked me to forgive him.

bellanomore 03/09/2013

sweety they will use GOD like you have never imagined, everything is open game for them to get what they want. now you need to see it as, ( how evil is that, and how truely evil is he to do that !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! )
PRETTY DAMN EVIL.

Nutellina 03/09/2013

Well this is just messed up.
I remember him saying that God choose him to bring light in this world. Then he told me that maybe things were not working out because he was Christian and I was buddhist (but he was abusing me and I was supporting him). So now that I'm thinking it's not the first time he is doing this.

positivagirl 03/09/2013

He is trying to break you down.

He has tried everything else it hasn't worked. So now he is trying this. they feign kindness and caring about YOUR interests.

Yes i think he is gaslighting you!! Saying he will pray for you is gaslighting you, making you think that there is something wrong with you!!!

First psycho I was with did this, and he did me massive emotional damage.

Nutellina 03/09/2013

Lol! That's crazy..... for real. And you are right...the feeling someone saying this to you, it's like you have something to fix. Everyone do, but he has more than me for sure. Lol.
He used to be so afraid I was talking badly about him around. This thing for reputation I always thought being very strange. Because personally I alwasy try to behave well and help others if I can, so if someone want to talk badly about me, I just don't care. But he cared so much about it! Weird!

deleted_user 03/09/2013

Mine said "God favors him, he prays and God answers his prayers" and "pride before the fall". They are nuts!

positivagirl 03/09/2013

Yes this is exactly what they do Nutellina, look up gaslighting.

It is said deliberately to weaken you and for you to question yourself and your own judgement. It is him saying to you.... you need gods help because you are WRONG. (Its not true)

His words are sending this message to your subconscience. Remember that they are manipulative and deceptive.

1. Telephone calls (that didn't work)
2. Turning up at your house (that didn't work)
3. Saying he is sorry (that didn't work)

So.... he ups the game, and starts to gaslight you..... For some reason lots of them use references to God . it gives them some level of control. I guess because you are religious? A man who does this is very dangerous on the emotional abuse level, as he can mess up your psyche.

Nutellina 03/10/2013

So I guess it is common that after trying with ph calls, text and showing up, P do this? Using God to control me? I still very naive even if I don t trust easily now.
Yeah he knows I pray and helping homeless all the time.... I guess he is using what I love to try to control me.

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