I came home from work today and just had a sense that someone had been in my house. Turned on my television and it was on ESPN.... His channel... Very frightening. Police will just say he denies it so there isn't much we can do

Nut, I am pretty new to this all but from what I understand this is very typical. Remember that they are good actors and that they know what to say to get you roped back in. I can't say that this would be difficult for me as well but you really need to stand your ground here. He knows you will feel sorry for him and that is why he is approaching you in this manner. That is their MO. We all want to believe that they are sorry and that they understand their mistakes but you know that this is simply not true. The things that they do are not mistakes they are a way of life. I AM PRAYING FOR YOU, STRANGER.

Hey Nutellina don't be fooled.

Remember

Seducing
Gaming
Ruining

THey love to play victim. http://datingasociopath.com/2013/02/23/victim-mentality/

Remember that playing victim is a sociopaths tool. He does this, he has done this before. Remember?

He will lure you in, then when he has you again (and has control)

Will do exactly the same. Stay strong. Don't be seduced again, and don't fall for the sob story. He is an actor remember and has tried everything else, so is now doing pity play.

Don't fall for it.

Actually he PRAYS for you???

What a cheeky git!!

This is GASLIGHTING..... he is praying for YOU??? Like there is something wrong with YOU?

Maybe I'm just having a down moment. I hate to be single, I really do! I have no interesting men around me. I know he is a scam, but sometimes someone that show you kindness and concern, even if it's fake, makes me feel better! Do you believe what I'n saying?? I can't even read my own words! Lol. I will not answer him....

Positivagirl do you think it 's a gaslighting? It may be....

DO NOT BELIEVE A WORD HE SAYS

I am still getting the 'I love you' texts 6 months on Nutellina, just waiting for the chance that he might catch me on a *down* day, he's trying to manipulate you, he wants you to feel guilty (even though you haven't done anything to feel guilty for). If he hadn't been such an arsehole then you would still be together! Always remember that! (none of this is down to you)

I agree with Positiva though, who does he think he is saying he will pray for you. He should save his prays for himself. It's another manipulation tactic in his little box of tricks. He wants you to contact him, or at very least respond and is using any method necessary to achieve this.

Kcalarco ... some kind of big dog or two might be the answer here ... that is crazy, you can't live with that in your mind. Get your locks changed or invest in an alarm system. He's violating your privacy.

kcalarco....that is very frightening, I would suggest same thing as manyrivers and ASAP.

Nutellina, if I were you I would just block his email address so that you don't even have to read his lies.

They do love to throw God and prayer around.

HE IS A NUT BAG! Dont drink the KoolAid!

It is a thecnic to make me think he is a good person because he is relying on God or to make me think I m the crazy one and I need prayers? I don t understand the deception of this.

he is mirroring what he thinks "good" people do and say. Its bullshit.

I guess you are right. It s sad to use God in this.