Victims of Psychopaths Community Group
Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
I'll never forget...One day I was in the car with my exN/S. This was when we were doing pretty good. He was pretending to be interested in my life,asking questions about what i want in life and what interests me...I don't know what made me ask him but i did...i asked "do you believe in God?"...he said "yeah... but not like 'that' " then there was a moment of silence & he fell into a trance...he said "lucifer" slowly. Then he snapped out of it. I heard what he said but all i could say was "what?!" ...all he said was" nothing". And he started up the car and starting driving and talking to me like nothing ever happened. I was scared.I never questioned him about it.I couldn't sleep. I tried to push it to the back of my mind but i couldnt.when I would look at his face I would think about when he said that (it lasted a few weeks).....Now I'm okay to talk about it without being shook up but it still gives me a weird feeling... They go to the extreme to put fear us so they have control.
What is something that your ex did that put tremendous fear & anxiety in you?
What is something that your ex did that put tremendous fear & anxiety in you?
Re his retarded attempt to lash out at me on the phone, for stuff I never did and was being falsely accused of, I simply said, "I don't have to listen to this. I'm going running" And I hung up the phone.
He has NEVER unleashed on me in person, but word on the street is that he gets incredibly maniacal and screams and breaks cell phones and whatnot..
He just sent me 66 texts yesterday, begging to see me, after he blew me off for 2 weeks for going to an annual camping trip with a bunch of closest friends/family, bcz "there would be other guys there". Weird as hell texts....saying he loves and misses me and wants me in his life forever while he bangs someone else that he's "more sexually compatible with". Which is even weirder, since he has never even french kissed me. He just goes straight for banging. Gross. Buit he refers to that as being "mutually sexually incompaztible." I am damn fine in bed. I am just not a hole or a masochist. I was very insulted by his innuendo that I am sexually deficient, bcz UI am definitely not.
Anyway, I responded with 49 texts, basically pointing out his inconsistencies and slamming him for his retarded and sadistic views re women and sex. He's truly sick. His goal is to date women, seduce them, then sexually abuse them, alternated with sexually frustrating them, and when they react angrily, he outs them as "crazy". And me, I am his Madonna. And he wants to keep me in that role. He's a classic cerebral narcissist. Not gonna work on me.
Last thing he texted me was something claiming I had sent him 11 texts log after he had gone to sleep. (He likes to portray the women he abuses as "crazy".
Truth is, I only sent hium 7 texts, for a total of 49, responding to his 66 texts to me. And I have taken photographs of all of our texts. :) Paper trails are awesome. :) No way he can smear me. I have him by the short hairs. :)
And I am pretty sure I have this "cock blocking Narcissists thing down pat now. :)
Recovery requires practice. And he has given me plenty of that. :)