I want to tell my soon to be x because he has blown our savings on prostitutes that he will be my whore (alimony and child support.) haha ya he will be my bitch...

Doing that will only come back to bite you on the butt betrayed. The nastier you try to be, the more they can top it. Please believe me and try to keep your hate to yourself until you have calmed down. You will NEVER, EVER be nastier than them. While you are hurting they are playing a game and you will play right into his hands. The best way to get over/even with them is to be happy. Concentrate on yourself. You deserve it.

Even documented proof EyesOpened means nothing when dealing with a consummate liar. They can talk themselves out of anything. Mine did. I have had 2 nasty court cases. Me with all the proof I could need (I thought), witnesses and everything. Him just with his wits. Guess who came out smiling both times?

Even with documented proof and proof online on a county clerk website, people do not believe. It's insane. I wasn't being vengeful, I was trying to warn and protect others. When the victim finally sees they are having a nightmare and not a dream, I get their affidavit and put it in the pile for future use if necessary. As long as what you write is true you will be safe from legal charges. Always check first before you put something out there. Sociopaths must sure be good in bed to overlook everything.

I believe you can get even (legally) but it takes a long time for people like us to learn how to think like that, at least it did for me. I've studied psychopathy for 5 yrs and dealt with a handful of them. I'm just now figuring out how to do it. Give yourself the power, take it away from them, but don't do anything to get yourself in trouble. I've finally figured it out and I have some fantastic ideas for how I'm going to do it with the most recent one. I can't wait to share. Right now I have to keep it quiet, in case he's reading.

It is useless to fight back in my opinion, unless you truly know how their mind works. Mine advised me that the best revenge is indifference and live a happy life. He basically told me that this is what he will do with me; just give the the cold shoulder and be happy (as he could ever know what happiness means). It's insane. A friend of mine (who dealt with a borderline person) told me that the best way to get rid of pain is to stay away from the word salad. Because this is what we will always get from them: a sick twisted word play.

I did post things on FB regarding Sociopathy for instance, but nothing regarding him specifically. I just wanted to let people know that there are true monsters among us who behave like normal humans beings. It's a very disputable topic when it comes to get even with these creatures.

I have the same thoughts on a daily basis. I think once my divorce is final I am going to send his current GF's mother (I got her address very early on while playing nancy drew) a copy of the sociopath next door, our custody case documents (which he never showed up or called in to court for twice) where It states that he hasnt seen or called our 3 yo child in over a year, i have full legal/physical custody due to his mental illness (claims to have PTSD to get money from govt so I used it against him then he tried to say he was never diagnosed nor can he provide documents stating otherwise) affidavits from neighbors and friends as well as a girl he took advantage of where he currently resides in Texas, letters that state his lawyer dropped him, as well as my declarations sent to the court and emails he sent me professing his love while he was screwing his current GF and 10 other girls. Then I second guess myself and feel like I should just let it be and let his GF figure it out on her own. Part of me feels if he has her to torment he will continue to not be a part of our son's life so I should just let it go. But I'm afraid he will knock her up and abandon her and their child as he did to us. I want to get revenge for sure cuz it will drive him nuts that I dined him out but more than that I don't want another child to be abandoned and have their self worth be dependent upon a scumbag like his/her S sperm donor

Sorry for the long post I'm a jabber jaw sometimes

I was hoping this can reach out to his past girlfriends/victims and see if they can vouch for me. But that seems like a long shot.

When Spath got with one of the women he cheated on me with, i tried to expose him. She is so under his spell, told me I was mental (obviously based on what he told her as they were enjoying themselves on our honeymoon, paid for by me, as he stole the tickets, whilst I was in hospital having my insides scraped out having lost my baby due to the stress of him and her) and helped him in his campaign to discredit me. Leave well alone. The trauma and pain is not worth it. Lost my job due to the trauma and stress, now living on benefit and in therapy due to the mess he left me in. They will not be told until it is their experience. Believe me.

Mine had to commit many crimes and I had to take copies of the evidence to convince people who he was. It did work and they did believe. Without the evidence though people would never have believed it. Even with all the stuff I had he still tries to smear me. I was just one step ahead of him the whole way and by the time he reached out to people I had already talked to them and SHOWN them. Even in the shock and pain I was going through I knew enough that I realized that he said/she said would never cut it. Online exposure only goes to show people that you are in fact "crazy" and trying to ruin him. Why?.....because that is much easier to believe than the truth. If you put yourself in someone elses shoes for a minute and you saw this stuff on social media....you would probably also think that is was a crazy woman pissed off at a cheating partner. Until you have lived this.....the awful stuff they do is unbelievable. Be very careful not to take yourself down trying to make people see. It is a precarious line.

Betrayed, If you want to reach out to prior gf, that might help you. I've heard it has helped for others if the past exes or gfs knew what happened to them. They often want to help the future victims, and sort of expect a call or note someday. This might royally piss off the P, though, so consider the wisdom.

I have reached out to two of his prior victims (ex wives). They were both very friendly and understanding with me. They both talked to me for awhile about it. However, both of them are receiving money from him, one for child support and the other for restitution for him conning tens of thousands of dollars from her. So neither of them want him to go to jail. So you have to be careful what you tell them. Neither of them want anything to do with my case against him because they want their money from him and I also think there is some fear involved, especially with the one who has kids with him and he has partial custody.