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Is he or she a sociopath or psychopath? Think we're only talking about serial killers here? Psychopaths, sociopaths and even narcissists come in every walk of life, every career level, and every socio-economic category.
Here is a day in the life trying to co-parent with a sociopath. He does not like that I work for an attorney. SO he assumes he is my boyfriend? If they werent so crazy it might be funny. Just thought I'd share. You have to start reading from bottom to top. And the last couple he just kept sending me.... Clearly I am not responding to this crap. But hopefully the judge will see what I have to deal with. We need to break out the sociopath decoder on this...
Him:
My kids dont want to be around an old man and your setting the worst example for
your daughter. Its really pathetic people around town ask me what the hell is
wrong with you. This entirely about the kids and who they are around i mean a 58
year old loser just so u can once again work in an office for your bf and not
improve yourself its sick and the kids have to see it and complain to me why an
old man is taking them on holloween. I mean its white trash to the extreme. I am
filing a motion to reduce support since i am not working let employer support you.
I can say what ever the hell i want when my kids are involved and you embaress
them. Jesus its like u are dating jd. Just let me have the kids becuase when
this goes bad the kids will end up right in the middle again and the pattern
continues.. Seriously i couldnt live with myself if
thats where i ended up i dont know how when those lights go out u can sleep at
night. What an god awful spot to be in. Good luck with this one
HIm
Keep my kids away from your old man pond scum bf its sickening that this is what
kind of role model for your kids get a clue the only way for u too support
yourself is this. Seriously do u know how u look at at what kids think about
being around an old man who looks like a hobbit i jesus u are at rock bottom
Him:
I mean u are essentialy a prostitute
Me:
Their primary care provider is ABC Pediatrics. They go toXXX for their dentist. Son sees Ms. Christie and daughter sees Ms. April per the suggestion of CPS. You have already been given the number to their office, but in case you lost it, it's 385-5555.
Him:
And i want the dr name u are taking kids to. You have no dignity and the kids dont want to be around an old loser.it utterly pathetic i dont know how u can look at yourself in the mirror. No i doubt ill ever work
Me:
You were given an opportunity to babysit the kids and you refused. So I enrolled them at the YMCA and now there is a problem with that? I read the order and I don't see where it says you get the kids after school everyday. I need reliable child care. That is before and after school care which you refused to do. So I still am not understanding what the problem is. Not to mention how much the kids enjoy their program. At some point you will work, no?
Him:
just making sure the school doesnt want to be involved at all i provided them with all court orders and starting the first of year ill start getting kids from school per judge's order
Me:
Yes, that is what the agreement states.
Him:
the school asked me to fill out a calender they provided i did it. i get the kids for thanksgiving and they are due to be returned to vb for christmas break on the 26th at two pm that divides the holiday in half.
Me:
Sure, I'll get it to you later today.
Him:
I want the name of the address of (child's) counselor i also want the name and address of the Dr's you have been taking them to.
Him:
My kids dont want to be around an old man and your setting the worst example for
your daughter. Its really pathetic people around town ask me what the hell is
wrong with you. This entirely about the kids and who they are around i mean a 58
year old loser just so u can once again work in an office for your bf and not
improve yourself its sick and the kids have to see it and complain to me why an
old man is taking them on holloween. I mean its white trash to the extreme. I am
filing a motion to reduce support since i am not working let employer support you.
I can say what ever the hell i want when my kids are involved and you embaress
them. Jesus its like u are dating jd. Just let me have the kids becuase when
this goes bad the kids will end up right in the middle again and the pattern
continues.. Seriously i couldnt live with myself if
thats where i ended up i dont know how when those lights go out u can sleep at
night. What an god awful spot to be in. Good luck with this one
HIm
Keep my kids away from your old man pond scum bf its sickening that this is what
kind of role model for your kids get a clue the only way for u too support
yourself is this. Seriously do u know how u look at at what kids think about
being around an old man who looks like a hobbit i jesus u are at rock bottom
Him:
I mean u are essentialy a prostitute
Me:
Their primary care provider is ABC Pediatrics. They go toXXX for their dentist. Son sees Ms. Christie and daughter sees Ms. April per the suggestion of CPS. You have already been given the number to their office, but in case you lost it, it's 385-5555.
Him:
And i want the dr name u are taking kids to. You have no dignity and the kids dont want to be around an old loser.it utterly pathetic i dont know how u can look at yourself in the mirror. No i doubt ill ever work
Me:
You were given an opportunity to babysit the kids and you refused. So I enrolled them at the YMCA and now there is a problem with that? I read the order and I don't see where it says you get the kids after school everyday. I need reliable child care. That is before and after school care which you refused to do. So I still am not understanding what the problem is. Not to mention how much the kids enjoy their program. At some point you will work, no?
Him:
just making sure the school doesnt want to be involved at all i provided them with all court orders and starting the first of year ill start getting kids from school per judge's order
Me:
Yes, that is what the agreement states.
Him:
the school asked me to fill out a calender they provided i did it. i get the kids for thanksgiving and they are due to be returned to vb for christmas break on the 26th at two pm that divides the holiday in half.
Me:
Sure, I'll get it to you later today.
Him:
I want the name of the address of (child's) counselor i also want the name and address of the Dr's you have been taking them to.
And of course they just set off on any topic that bugs them, no matter where the topic starts out.
I feel like he is dying for me to respond and he is fishing for me to say "he's not my boyfriend" I wont give him that satisfaction...
Thanks for the feedback ya'll. What sucks about this is that as much as I dont want to admit it, it still effects me. It still in a small way makes me feel bad. I hate that he can do that to me. But I am so very glad to be away!
I certainly am not there yet, but I was once before.