Verbal Abuse/Abuse Community Group

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Patheticmexicangirl
Patheticmexicangirl

Is there anyome else who goes through wat i go through? My boyfriemd has angry issues .if i do any little thing to upset him on accident or randomly. He blows upon me. Im so used to it cuz i believe he can change if i stay patient.  Deep down im sad n wish itll stop cuz i love him to much. I mean we all get angry. But when it comes to words beimg expressed. It hurts. He says hes sorry sometimes most. Times. He brushes it off n acts like it didnt happen. So. I pretend it didnt happen either. Cuz then he sweets to me. But it can flip easily with any wrong thing i do. Im scared of my bf but i love him . if yuh relate to me plz dm on instrgm : princess_shorty_1996 


Group FounderRavenck
Ravenck
My soon to be ex husband would yell and scream throw objects around and like your boyfriend he made excuses and still does. It is not right or ok to act like that. I told my ex that it scared me and because of this it killed any intimacy I had for him. I know you love him but.. A temper like that can get worst. If you need to chat let me know.
Asha88
Asha88
I've been married for over 20 years to someone like that and it's a nightmare. I'm trying to leave but hard to allow myself to leave. I've been trying for 10 years. I'm sad, depressed and always physically tired.
wonderfulmother26
wonderfulmother26
Thats how my relationship started, then i got pregnant after being together over two years. Now that our son was born he has become physically abusive and still acts sweet afterwards.
Tangled_Weeds
Tangled_Weeds
@Patheticmexicangirl - First, I disagree with the name you chose here. You're not pathetic. Second, what you are describing is called the cycle of abuse. The part in which he is nice used to be called the honeymoon stage. Now it's just considered a make up period. https://lossforwords360.files.wordpress.com/2011/04/cycle-of-abuse.gif LEAVE HIM NOW! He, like the rest, will only get worse. Sometimes staying gets a woman killed. Sometimes staying will get you children that get abused by him too. Staying never results in the abuser suddenly realizing they are abusive and changing. Trust me. Please leave him.