For the last couple of months my husbands friend sleeps here every night. He lives in his car because he doesn't want to waste his money on an apartment. But my hsband and I live on the same check as him with 2 people so he could definately pull it off. It's not easy but we do it, and have been doing it for 2 years. My husband and I have not spent any time together at all, even our sexual relations have been intterupted. We haven't had sex in over a month. (Sorry for tmi). How do I tell his friend that he can only sleep over maybe twice a week so that I can be with my hubby? This is making me emotional and is hurting our relationship, and I know my hubby feels it too... Please give me some advice I don't know what to do, I don't want to be mean.
I know it sounds really mean but the other day my hubby and I were really tired we had a long day and we both went to sleep around 9pm, and his friend gets out of work at 11pm and we ignored his phone calls. Partly because me and the hubby were sleeping and were to lazy to get up, and partly because we just felt like being alone. The next day when he came over he was so tired and said he didnt sleep all night, and that would be because he was in his car all night and we ignored him, so it made it hard for him to get any sleep. It made me feel really bad, but then he went and fell asleep and stayed here all day and it drove me nuts... I don't know, I just think my husband should let him know that he needs to go cause he is his friend, not mine. Maybe I'm mean I dont know lol...