Urinary Incontinence Support Group

Urinary incontinence is the involuntary excretion of urine from one's body. It is often temporary, and it almost always results from an underlying medical condition. Stress, functional, and urge incontinence are the most common forms. Share with other support group members and learn from their stories and experiences.

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Bobsan48
Bobsan48

Ive been in a reltioship for the past 2 years and a half and been having a off and on issues with not having control sometime after the first year. I am now having to rely on wearing adult diaper 24/7, even though my girlfriend knows about it and understands it, I myself sometimes feel that its effecting or relationship. Ive talked to her and she always teels me that there is nothing wrong; but apart of me thinks otherwise. Its most likely just me but i was wondering if anyone may have any insite inrgards to a situation like this?



lakeishajohnson
lakeishajohnson
you have nothing to be ashamed of, this is part of you and there people who understand like me
Justin97
Justin97
If you are with someone who truly loves you, they will see past any and all problems you face in life. They only see you, the person they love.

I'm currently engaged to the girl of my dreams. She came to me, when I never would've thought I'd find love in this world being stuck in diapers like I am.

Never be ashamed of who you are, no matter what difficulties you may face.
rononwheelz
rononwheelz
They say true love conquers all and yes it does, if your girl really loves you she will see past your problem and accept it. I'm paralysed from waist down and had a great loving relationship with lady that saw past my lack of movement/control and all that went with it.
uhohALLbetter
uhohALLbetter
My wife started having problems with stress incon after our 3rd child was born and my response was one of understanding and total acceptance. With stress incon in a woman anything that causes stress to the bladder can cause leaks...doesn't always but can. Intercourse sometimes causes leaks and at first she was so embarrassed she withdrew thinking I would not want her because "I might pee on you". It took a while for me to convince her I didn't care if she did and now, 5 years, later our sex life is great...and occasionally I get a wet surprise...

My advice...if she says it's no big deal, it's no big deal. If you're being intimate with her and you leak YOU shouldn't make a big deal out of it, if she says something about it try to find a compromise...if she doesn't say anything just carry on like nothing at all happened.

MOST OF ALL!!! Do not withdraw from her, that could be what you are "recognizing" as an affect on the relationship.
Anisha
Anisha
I believe if she says that she loves you and you feel her love every day and night than you do not need to doubt it.
Even I've never been in love with a man as such that is my believe.