Urinary Incontinence Support Group
Urinary incontinence is the involuntary excretion of urine from one's body. It is often temporary, and it almost always results from an underlying medical condition. Stress, functional, and urge incontinence are the most common forms. Share with other support group members and learn from their stories and experiences.
I do change up what I use and wear depending on what I am going to be doing and where I am at, but for a normal 8hrs I can get by with an Abena M4 or a Northshore Care Supreme diaper by itself, but many times I will use a lesser diaper for a doubler just to be safe.
I am a cheap scape, so when I can, I do wear my diapers till they are maxed out in capacity, lol. The fewer changes I can get away with, the cheaper it is, lol. The only times I get any type of rashes is when I have to use cloth backed diapers. So if/when I have to wear them, they never get to max because I too don't want a rash.
These diapers last a lot longer than the other diapers i was using, i am able to go 8 hours without a change if needs must. These were recommended by the incon nurse because I keep having accidents owing to the stool softeners.
He said, "it's like picking out a pair of shoes. No one size or type of shoe is going to fit or satisfy everyone." He said he's been helping people out with incontinence products for ten years now. I found this comment to be particularly apt and relevant, especially with the problem that I have continued to have with leaks.
I did some more research online, specifically about how to stop leakage from occurring with an adult diaper. One particular point that interested me wsa the issue of the leg seal. The elastics have to form a snug fit around the leg openings.
The recommendation was to run your finger around the elastics inside the leg openings, to make sure that the leg seal is snug but not too tight. in my particular situation, there are ruffles around the leg openings of my pull-ups, and these need to be on the outside, not the inside.. Also, there was advice concerning the size of the diaper. Too loose or too tight, and the diaper will gap and leak.
So, I thought long and hard about how I could stop my pull-ups from leaking. It seemed to me that the key problem was that the leaks were focused on the leg openings and leg seal. I also considered whether or not I was using the right liner or booster pad.
I read a comment on another website that stated that many liners have a plastic backing with adhesive in which the liner adheres to the diaper. This actually defeats the purpose of the liner, which is to provide extra absorbency and leakage protection.
The reason for this is because the plastic does not allow the moisture to pass through the liner into the diaper. Thus, only the liner is absorbing the liquid, and not the diaper as well. However, there are notable exceptions to this, such as the Tranquility Booster Pads. This is because these type of booster pads do not have a plastic backing on the adhesive side, allowing the moisture to pass through into the diaper or pull-up. This ensures that absorbency will be maximized.
Despite putting all these strategies into effect however, I still had leakage out the leg openings. This indicated to me that the leg seal was not competely closed, or snug, around the leg openings. So, this evening, I decided to try something a bit unique and novel.
The first thing I did was to unfold and open one of my pull-ups, then put it on about halfway up my legs, so I could put some pads inside it. Then, after removing the plastic strips on the adhesives, I put two Tranquility Booster Pads (the ones that hold about 10 ounces of liquid each) inside the pull-up, stacking them one on top of each other, the top one staggered about an inch or so to the side of the bottom one.
I made sure these two pads were secured well inside the pull-up, and in the proper place: just below the waistband, extending downward into the bottom of the pull-up, and finally ending about halfway up the back of the pull-up. Finally, I put on a second pull-up over the first one with the booster pads, and I re-checked the leg seal and leg openings for a good, snug fit.
Not long after this, I developed an urge to urinate, and had a full void of my bladder. Rather than trying to hold it in, I simply just let it flow. I was very relieved to discover that there were no leaks this time, even after a full void! In fact, I was this combination of pull-ups and booster pads was able to hold a good deal more than the first full void, without any major leaks.
i have also ordered a pair of Sani-Pant nylon cover-up pants, and I plan to use those on top of my pull-ups when they arrive, to provide even greater protection. I have tried plastic pants, and they were too hot and uncomfortable. I also recently tried a pair of vinyl pants, but I ordered them much to large in size. I am hoping that the Sani-Pant pants I ordered will do the trick.
I read in this support forum about putting a pair of cotton underwear on over the diaper, and then a pair of vinyl pants, or the like, over that combination. I am still debating whether I might try putting cotton briefs on, either over the pull-ups, then put the nylon pants on over everything, or perhaps put the nylon pants over the pull-ups, then the cotton underwear on over evrything instead. I will try out both scenarios, and post an update on what I found worked best.
I do hope that my experiences in this regard will help you folks out. This has been a very frustrating and long struggle for me to find a working solution. Hopefully, together, we can find solutions for the problems we face, with courage, dignity, and hope.
Tranquility has two booster pads. A small 14 inch one and a full size one. Medline also has a booster pad.
Your best bet is to find the right diaper product that hold the amount you need it to hold. In my opinion, Tranquility and Wellness Briefs are the best.