Unemployment Support Group
Recently unemployed or frustrated with the job search? Unemployment can affect more than just the bank account - it has a negative effect on motivation and self-esteem, even sense of identity. This community addresses the challenges associated with unemployment and how to cope.
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Do you have at least three or four people and their telephone numbers to list on job applications?
Are they former co-workers, neighbors, friends, church members, community leaders, or just acquaintances?
Have you ever been in a position in which you had no one to list as a reference?
Are they former co-workers, neighbors, friends, church members, community leaders, or just acquaintances?
Have you ever been in a position in which you had no one to list as a reference?
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If someone is in the position of having no references, it doesn't make that person bad. Sometimes the people surrounding us in life aren't much good for anything at all. That's when we sometimes have to do whatever it takes to make it in life. I think that years ago I may have even made up references that didn't even exist in order to get jobs, but then, the requirements for these jobs weren't high, and they probably never checked my references anyway. So I got the jobs. Mostly things like moving furniture or factory work, jobs with no great future in them. For a real job that pays real money and that has a future in it with possibilities of pay increases and promotions, it is necessary to have good references that do check out.
If you ever work a temporary job it is good to get the contact information of someone in the company to use as a reference. Any kind of work that you do such as volunteer work, self employment allows you to come in contact with someone that can vouch for your work habit and character.
It's especially hard when the references have to be past employee's you had worked with. Most of the time I have no contact with people I worked with outside of work.
It's not that they were bad, I just had no connection to any of them. Where I live, people live so far from each other, and the hours we work are not conducive to getting together much, if we wanted to.
And using friends, I don't see how that is not considered biased. Of course a friend won't say bad things about you.