Understanding Betrayal Community Group
Traumatic events, such as natural disasters and criminal attacks shatter assumptions about our sense of safety in the world. In a similiar way, the discovery of infidelity is devastating because it shatters basic assumptions about the security we expect in committed relationships. This group is open to anyone. It's a place to share, learn, and talk freely. Let's...

Excellent point. Sorry you had to experience this from someone you loved. Consider this: sometimes our worst enemies do us the greatest favors, by forcing us to confront things we would rather ignore. Since she has spread your private secrets everywhere, you no longer need to fear exposure. Since she has treated you so callously, you no longer need to act like her slave. Be grateful for what pleasure you had, mourn what you lost, and look for better ways to spend your time than slalking her on Facebook or wherever. Hugs.