Hi I lost my daughter Michaela on May 27, 2010 @27 weeks. I know exactly what you're going through. We have been ttc for 5 months too and I actually decided that this month would be tha last one and I was ready to give up and let God take over from here. I conceived in Sep but had a chemical and I just found out on Sun that I conceived again but I'm not getting too excited yet because of my history(miscarriage, chemical, and stillbirth). Also I'm 34 yrs old and as we all know fertility drops as we get older!

Try to stay positive and maybe even take a month to just relax and enjoy each other. I know it's easier said than done but ttc can be very stressful and stress will reek havock on your repoductive system. This past cycle I started doing yoga again and just relaxed more because I was getting pretty obsessed with the whole ttc. I also took Clomid but that's another matter, mainly cause of my age.

Don't give up and try to stay positive. If you ever need to talk I am here for you. ((HUGS))

Amanda

I too lost my son on April 16th. I was 22wks and it took 6 years to get pregnant with him. We were into our 6 month and I gave up I was so tired of testing and getting negatives!!! The last month I let go and sure enough I found out I was expecting on Friday and had my first appt. I am now 5wks. I guess what I'm trying to say is try not to stress out about it, easier said then done I know! Maybe don't test and relax for 1 cycle or 2, easier said then done!! If you ever need to talk we're all here for you!!

Big Big Hugs and lots of baby dust!!!

I am going on 7 months on the 20th of losing my daughter, We are in our 5th month TTC, and still nothing....I stopped doing the OPKs this month, because it IS true, even the negative OPKs are depressing. So, I am giving it over to God (at least till Jan 7th, when I have my appt w/ my OBGYN where we will do blood work to see if everything is ok.

Hey girl--

welcome to the group. Sorry for the loss of Mia. I lost my son on May 12 @ 19weeks. I had to wait 3cycles to start trying, so October was my first month REALLY trying, and I used OPK. I got pregnant, but it turned out to be a chemical.

We are all in this together, hugs to you. Hopefully you can find some comfort/support and information here with us!

Amber

Hi:) Last Sunday was 6 months since Daniel's death. We are trying to get pregnant since 3 months. So: first month I thought I'll get pregnant having sex in the middle of the month, and NOTHING. Second month- I used tests and NOTHING. Third month I had sex every other day for whole month and NOTHING beside one week late period. Still not pregnant and this time I'm taking time off, at least till January. I'm tired of trying and worring. It will happen whenever and I have to accept that. My health is perfect, so I just have to relax. And I wish you could do it to :) Good luck :)