Trying To Conceive Support Group
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I would just let the doctor know that you're not ready for that step. Remember that you are the patient and you are the one who's giving them business.
That's weird that your doctor mentioned that IUI has a low success rate when others have had success. Did you get tested for estrogen and progesterone?
Wishing you the best. Keep me updated on the IUI.