Trying To Conceive Support Group
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I take a hpt tomorrow for round one with Clomid. I have a big feeling that is going to be a BFN. I have made my peace with that for the most part. The problem is I have a friend who got pregnant while I was trying for baby #1. Now that I am in the middle of ttc #2, she has decided that she needs to have a another baby. I love her and she is my best friend. But I can't help feeling like it is a competition. That she has to be the one to get pregnant first.
My DH and I are all ready for baby #2. We have a house, and have or finances in order and I am starting to stock money away for when I go on bed rest, (Dr has said I will). However, my BFF lives in a 2 bedroom house, and they only have one working car and it doesn't even have heat.
I'm trying to be supportive and not be mean and judgmental, but my anger and disappointment are making it hard. Is there someone out here who can help me. I Really need someone to talk to and who is understanding. I feel horrible and want to cry because I feel like a horrible friend. Not to mention the feelings of knowing tomorrow will be a huge let down!
My DH and I are all ready for baby #2. We have a house, and have or finances in order and I am starting to stock money away for when I go on bed rest, (Dr has said I will). However, my BFF lives in a 2 bedroom house, and they only have one working car and it doesn't even have heat.
I'm trying to be supportive and not be mean and judgmental, but my anger and disappointment are making it hard. Is there someone out here who can help me. I Really need someone to talk to and who is understanding. I feel horrible and want to cry because I feel like a horrible friend. Not to mention the feelings of knowing tomorrow will be a huge let down!
My BFF just got pregnant and I feel extremely sad over it. Trying to be happy for her but I have totally been avoiding her.
We are very poor and sometimes I feel we are being punished for it by not getting pregnant. (Perspective. We won't be horrible parents just because we have very little.)
Keep faith, maybe you will have a BFP! I also have a good friend that just got pregnant with baby #2. It's hard, especially to deep down not feel all that happy for them. It's just your situation, and it's normal. I'm sure everyone in our situation feels the same way. It's natural.
Sometimes when I am so envious that I'm angry, I think about how I am all prepared and ready too, and look at the person who is not and realize.... I would never want to be in their position. Yes, I would love to be pregnant and I could care less if I were financially ready. But, I know when it does happen, I won't have to worry about a damn thing when it comes to raising my baby. I know those other people will have a lot of stress, and plenty to worry about. Weather financial, marital, or support stress. Maybe seeing that side of things will help ease the jealousy/hate you feel. I hope it does at least!
Halterbroke, you will be a GREAT mom. It is not about the money. and there is more to my BFF's issues than $ and she is a great mom!