I basically just said f*** ovulation days n tests and just had sex with my DH every single day n had fun while doing it. I just got rid of the stress of having to check when im ovulating and keeping a calendar with dates of ovulation n all that crap. I put it all in God's hands n made it happen. Have sex everyday at least once and you cant miss it lol

I agree with Kitty - when I got pregnant with my son Jack that is exactly what we did - again, I had the same mind set, unfortunately last month I had a Chemical Pregnancy with an early miscarriage - won't let my mindset change and will do the same from here on out!

Thanks ladies for the advise that is what I'm going to do too:)

That's what i did to. I said screw this testing crap. I didn't buy a single opk. i still charted my temp but not religiously. if i missed a day i didnt worry about it. i took my prenatal everyday and i also took FertilityBlend 3x a day. i think that might have helped. But also just relaxing about it. I know its way easier said than done!!! good luck!!!

We get it on every other day. I have to chart my cycle because it is irregular and I have been having a lot of problems lately. OPK's I dont think work well with me. Hope this is our month.

ugh i just don't like doing it everyday because it starts to feel like a chore and we stop enjoying it. maybe after i get af induced we can do that. i've been charting but my chart hasn't been making any sense. i thought some of it was my thermometer and i've only been doing it for three days with new thermometer. but maybe we'll try this

I agree w/ everybody else. The first month I stopped using OPKs and charting I got pregnant with my son. When I was trying for my second, I charted for a few months and the first month I stopped, I got pregnant again but ended in m/c and which I had to had a D & C. After my first af after the D & C I charted and no luck and I didn't chart the next month I ended up pregnant again but with a chemical pregnancy. I start charting again but not going to stress too much about it.

Last time I got pregnant, I wasn't charting or anything. I had read the book Taking Control of Your Fertility and learned a neat trick.

Fertile CM leaves a round, wet-looking spot in your underwear. Less fertile CM leaves more of a line that can be wetish or dry-looking. Had sex when I saw the former and BAM got pregnant.

That book was awesome, though.

I was also having sex pretty frequently, but had spent a few days away from hubby, so it wasn't every day before the fertile cm.