Unfortunately, the only thing that helps these feelings go away is when the women in your life stop getting pregnant! :) We all go through this when we hear a relative, friend, or just someone we know is expecting. I sometimes find myself staring at pregnant women in the grocery store and thinking "why you and not me???" Not that it's their fault I'm having problems conceiving, but it's so unfair! (((HUGS)))

Ayreish, you are not alone in feeling this way. I am also feeling pretty defeated lately. All of my friends are pregnant and lots of my co-workers. I find myself trying to put on a smile so no one thinks that I'm a bad person. But all I want to do is scream and cry. I am kinda in the same boat as you with the testing. I have had some done and they still want to do more, but I fell like I'm wasting more time. You are so not alone!!! You are in my prayers!!! HUGS!!!

Im right there with you! My best friend, sister, and sister -in-law are all pregnant and here I am still trying..3rd month now. Feeling a little discouraged. Ive learned its harder every month that I get a BFN! Hopefully March will be the month for us all!! Just gotta keep praying :)

Thanks, ladies! I've been trying not to think too much about other people and just focusing on my relationship with my husband. As much as I want to be BDing like bunnies, I don't want it to become all about that and lose that closeness and fun we usually have together. It's just so frustrating when we've been trying for awhile and are still dealing with some obstacles when all these people around me are getting pregnant at the drop of a hat! Just yesterday I found out my cousin R. and his gf are expecting when not long ago I had heard she m/c! I asked him about it and his response was "Oh, yeah... we did lose the baby, but a month later she was pg again!" I still haven't emailed him back yet because that just set me off on one of those "You have got to be kidding me?!" rants and it's always better to be calm and rational when talking to people. It's times like these when I start thinking a vacation from my life is in order. ;)

It is SO tough to see all these pregnant women around me who have seemed to conceive with such ease.
My sister in law has been TTC for 10 years. She goes through times where she can't even be around pregnant women and I can totally understand it.

I am so over seeing pregnant women also.. a friend of mine is due this week and i would love to go and see her prior to giving birth, but i know i will be seeing her after it to congratulate her and more so after.. its horrible that i just want to distance my self from her and it isnt her fault at all that i havent concieved yet..
I think it kind of upsets me more that she doesnt tell me how she is feeling or how pregnancy feels cause she doesnt want to upset me, but i feel worse cause i really want to know these things.. its so frustrating at times :(