Trying To Conceive Support Group
Whether you are just beginning your journey to create your family, or you have been trying for a few months, the TTC community will provide you with a group of like minded people who can help. It takes up to a year for the average fertile couple to achieve a successful pregnancy, and here at DailyStrength you will find information and support while you are waiting for...
Hi my name is Jessica and this is my first time on here, im new to this. My fiance and I have been trying to concive a baby for about a year and half now. And no luck yet! I've seen my obgy quite a bit, he has put me on two different medications at once. I have always had irregular periods all my life. I'm 23 years old, and ready to start a little family. My doctor put me on provera for ten days to start my period, and then five days into my period he has me taken clomid. This is my second cycle round with clomid, but 5th time taken provera. When i talk to my friends are family they always say that it will happen when the time is right. But all i want is someone to be there for me to talk to me about this to help me out. To be honest I hate hearing people tell me "not to stress out about it, or dont try to hard and not to think about haven a baby, or when the time is right god will grant you the gift of a child." Sometimes i feel like they are not listening to me. So it stresses me out even more. I get to the point where i think that god hates me and does not want me to be a mommy, and i know that thats not true, but i feel like that. Is there anyone else out there who also has irregular periods and is on medications like i am. I need some advice on what to do. Right now on my body cycle this is where im at. I took my provera for last month towards the end like i was supposed to and I did not start my period. Which means i cant start my clomid. Im six days late now. I have had the nasea feelings fatigue feelings and sore and tenderness of my breast. But i took a pregnacy test today and it said negative. Can anyone give me any advice on what to do, or at least tell me there in the same boat as me and help talk me threw this. I feel like im going insane!! Please please please someone help me!!!!!!
always here if you need to talk.
I too, feel like, I am going insane as well. To be honest the only thing that has helped me is coming on here and listening and talking to others. Everyone here feels or has felt the same as you. I know that it feels like a long road, all hope is gone, and you are alone.
I just want to tell you that you are not alone. There is some on here that has felt the same way that we do and has actually recently conceived.
Since this is just a stressful time may I sugesst that you and you significant other take a mini vacation? or plan out a weekend or a day that you guys can just take a break. I also know this is easier said then done, but forget about the baby making for one day, you will come back stronger and more determined than ever.
Please keep us informed we are all here for you. I can ensure you that no one judges you and someone here if not all of us feel the same way that you do. I will help you all that I can. All you have to do is ask!
!~! Lots of Baby Dust !~!
This is the first month of fertility treatment for me n DH.we were TTC since 6 months.
And about the people saying" RELAX"..this has become common for me now.Right from my parents to my mean friends(who conceived within 2 months of trying) are saying this R word.
How you'll relax when u never ever forgets this topic out of ur mind.Its always running in some corner of your mind.Even though you'll take a trip or a vacation, u may see a child and thats it all kind of feelings and thoughts are back in your mind.
Anyway,I know relax word is not for us.But we can def make our mind busy with something..i have failed till now but still trying to busy my mind and try the word R.
Come down to group whenever you feel low.
and reply to reallyhopefull, yea my body is doing the whole decieving me. it makes me think that im pregnat, so i get all excited and stuff. but when i take a pregnacy test like i did again this morning it always says negative. agrivates me more than anything. but once again thankyou so much for showing me support!!!