Trying To Conceive Support Group
Whether you are just beginning your journey to create your family, or you have been trying for a few months, the TTC community will provide you with a group of like minded people who can help. It takes up to a year for the average fertile couple to achieve a successful pregnancy, and here at DailyStrength you will find information and support while you are waiting for...
well last nite i got info from my mom that my sister is preganate again, this is her third child. i started bawling my eyes out cuz its just not fair that she gets to have another one and me and mh husband have been trying fo two years. i know it may sound selfish and all to some people but its my feelings and thats how i feel. i am verry depressed about it right now all i wanna do is cry and then my mom and aunt tell me when the time is right it will happen for you, can somebody honestly shoot the when time is right crap. i know im not the only one who is tired of hearing that line or god will grant you when your ready or something. people who are having problems ttc dont want to keep hearing it. or telling us were trying to hard or were to stressed out about it. i told my mom last nite what do you expect mom weve been trying for two years now and nothing and then my sister gets pregnate with 2 kids now sence we have been trying. Now if that isnt a slap is the face stab to the heart i dont know what is.
well thanks for letting me vent!!! baby dust to you all!!!!
well thanks for letting me vent!!! baby dust to you all!!!!
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I totally know where you are coming from! i am bitter when it comes to this also..my sister has 4 kids!!!!! She finally got her tubes tied after the 4th one! None of these were planned...Life isnt fair sometimes but we have to just trust that God has a plan for us and when the time is right it will happen! Good luck and i hope you get your BFP soon :)
mrsManuel
thankyou and im so happy someone else feels the same way i do, i feel like its selfish on my half but sometimes it just gets to me
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i am so sorry. my sister is also a fertile myrtle, but she had her tubes tied years before i started ttc, but i definitely get jealous sometimes. i know exactly how you feel. and i'm so very sorry. there is nothing i can say that will make this better. i wish you the best of luck! :)
mrsManuel
thanks caseythomas that means alot to me. im trying not to be so jealous over her cuz i know its not fair to her. its just hard and she understands.
deleted_user
Thank you for sharing. We have been trying for two years to have a baby and my sister got pregnant after trying for 2 months. I cried and cried the night I found out. Now the baby is about to turn two and I still am childless. It is very hard. i try to focus on the blessings in my life, which helps. But I know exactly how you feel. Its hard also hearing friends tell me they got pregnant quickly or they are having their second child.
mrsManuel
its is hard and right now it seems like everyone i know is pregnate and i just get so frustrated cuz i want to know when its going to be my turn. i pray soon. but im just a sittig bomb waiting for the chance to explode of joy.
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