I have had terrible Flashbacks,blackouts and niteterrors,can anyone give me any suggestions how to handle these?For instance i was in a mall and instead of someone just walking past me i saw who raped me and started screaming.Thats all i saw was them.I can be doing things at home and just outta the blue its like im teleported back in time.Its terrifying and i can barely breathe when going through this.Has anyone found anything that helps lessen the stress.I also tend to get stuck in my niteterrors i cant wake up.Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Hi I am sorry this happened to you and you have had the need to be here, in my last reply - I have a few techniques to help me calm down and there are some provided here somewhere I shall dig erm out and send them to you - something which works for me is to go through the alphabet and say names of animals, for example, A - ant, B - bear, C - cat these also help with flashbacks and bad memories as ou say them make sure your breathing in for 5 seconds and out for five seconds, another way is to lift your knees up to you and breath in for 5 and out for 5.
most importantly keep yourself safe because if you feel safe you feel more calm overall...
also find a song that you like and when your feeling panicky hum the tune.
xxx
Thinking of you
i have alot of the same things going with me.. i learned sometimes if you try to think of something different will help alittle with the flashbacks. i have really bad nightmares real bad!. i wish i knew away to get around them also.. im sorry you have to go through these horrible things.
most importantly keep yourself safe because if you feel safe you feel more calm overall...
also find a song that you like and when your feeling panicky hum the tune.
xxx
Thinking of you