My spouse came out to me about two weeks ago as want to transition MTF. I was not very supportive. I hit me like a ton a bricks. He had considered this before we started dating. Went to therapy and decided it was not what he wanted at the time. So we began a relationship. I overreacted when he told me he wanted to revisit transitioning. I tried to be supportive to him, but also not let things change. I helped him with things like finding panties, and painting his nails. Just nothing to out there. I was trying to hide who he wanted to become. I did not want him to consider hormones or dressing in public. I was thinking more of me than him. He left me a week ago and asked for space which is something I really did not want to give. I did a bad job at giving him this space, because I was confused. Were we still a couple? Did he still love me? He asked one time for therapy while we were together. I shot it down because I did not see us affording it and I wasnt able to except that my spouse wanted to talk to someone else and could not tell me what was happening. He does not currently want any communication with me. He wants to work on figuring out himself and does not believe he can be in a relationship right now. I on the other hand want to try and support him. I want to see if this can work. He doesnt believe me when I tell him that I want to try being with him as a woman. I have never considered being with a woman. He points out that I am not a lesbian, but its different now. I got to know him as a man and married him. Who he is wont change. Just his physical apperance and his happiness with himself. So I do think I could make it work with him transitioning into a woman, because I am already in love with him. I  am in love with his soul, not his body. I do know it would be a hard journey and things would change. I know that some of my family or friends might not except my choices but they are mine. My only problem is he wont believe me that I want this to work, and he does not want to try to make things work only to end up seperating again. If you dont try though how do you know? So I am confused. I dont know how to convince him I do want to except him as a woman, and I dont want to file for divorce.