Transgender Support Group
This community is here to support and help the large population of transgender people. If you or anyone you know identify as transgender, this is the place to share your feelings and experiences and speak with others who are going through similar things in their lives.
my mum was a jw basically she was a c of e member and used to hang out with the Methodists. in the news ive seen child abusers in the jw,s and elsewhere. now where was I evil then or you ? they followed us about in religions gave us abuse violence lied attacked us defamed us even
how come that's not god the paedo then when they kept calling us that in the name of god in those religions at times following us around claiming kline felters kids were insane ? how come god said what I was and she was involved with child abuse ? I said that in the first place so how come this god is even real, the other kids used to say that to me and I agreed I didn't know it as god either we all sort of said how is that god maybe not to a fault but their was a few of us who did at least. how was we being judged by god then when they were child abusers ? and what of the others they claimed they were right generally in the law of god what were they doing with corruption with the heil satan at times. all we did was try to cope with GID how come we were so bad then, and how come we wasn't being abused by abusers. how come their god forgives them - what again - and yet were the scum. wheres that ? isn't that a bit incongruous after the mouth we were subjected to at times ? we could never work out why they used to argue if we got married but theyre criminals in places so whats it to us or anyone or anymore. didn't god say they were effectively damned so whys is it or was it us ?
how come that's not god the paedo then when they kept calling us that in the name of god in those religions at times following us around claiming kline felters kids were insane ? how come god said what I was and she was involved with child abuse ? I said that in the first place so how come this god is even real, the other kids used to say that to me and I agreed I didn't know it as god either we all sort of said how is that god maybe not to a fault but their was a few of us who did at least. how was we being judged by god then when they were child abusers ? and what of the others they claimed they were right generally in the law of god what were they doing with corruption with the heil satan at times. all we did was try to cope with GID how come we were so bad then, and how come we wasn't being abused by abusers. how come their god forgives them - what again - and yet were the scum. wheres that ? isn't that a bit incongruous after the mouth we were subjected to at times ? we could never work out why they used to argue if we got married but theyre criminals in places so whats it to us or anyone or anymore. didn't god say they were effectively damned so whys is it or was it us ?
I understand that you are angry by the way these beings have treated you in your life and I most certainly understand your frustatons with these being using religion to justify their actions
A long time ago my step grandfather told me something I never forgot which was that if we read the Bible carefully, that is the old testament we can plainly see that man made God in his own image. That is very important to keep in mind because then anyone who says anything disparaging towards us has no validity whatsoever.
Furthermore, there is a saying, you are what you answer to, so if anyone regardless of who they are calls something disparaging, there is no law that requires you to answer the claim. If someone accussed you of having blue eyes and your eyes were brown, would you own it? Of course not.
Same principle here but what troubles me is your negativity, not because it is not valid but because it is unhealthy for you. They are not being affected by it, you are.
The God they speak of only exists for them, not you. You were placed before them so they could learn compassion and empathy but they chose the ignorant route, so be it. It does not have to affect you.
I learned a long time ago that words only have meaning if I choose to give them meaning, so if someone were to call me, for example, Satan's child (and it did happen and often) because I am left handed, I would not care because I know that my being left handed is part of the uniqueness that is me.
Lastly, some beings are quick to condemn what they do not understand, sadly that is the case more often than not. I am not asking you to forgive them but I am asking you to simply let go of the anamosity that surrounds your heart. Now when someome acts ignorant towards me, I ask them why they feel the need to put me down. That usually stops them in their tracks. I learned to do that after I realized that nothing anyone says to me has anything to do with me but it has everything to do with them
How could it? If anything anyone says to me has to do with their warped perception of me how true can any of it be? Only I know myself, well now I do but you get the gist.
I hope this provides you with the comfort and love you so deserve. God loves you no matter what. All others who say different are liars, case closed. :)
Hugs.
Wolf