Transgender Support Group

This community is here to support and help the large population of transgender people. If you or anyone you know identify as transgender, this is the place to share your feelings and experiences and speak with others who are going through similar things in their lives.

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LoganGray 04/04/2017

My name is Loagn, I am FtM transgender. i have no friends... no support from any of my family who wont look at me, I live with my dad who is abussive and have mutiple other brain and mental issues including schizophrenia, bipolar dissorder, OCD, ADHD, Anxiety, and issues with self harm... even then littlest bit of support would mean the world to me right now... I feel awful and I debate if I was a mistake in this world..

Terriw 04/04/2017

Hi
No your not a mistake.

Mark87802 04/04/2017

Hi Logan, you have a friend in me. Im sorry about your situation, but im sure that you will find alot of support hear. I sure have. There is a reason for us all to be in this world, and im sure that you will find that out. I know that you are very loved by somebody in your life, you may not feel that way but you are. When you are down and feeling depressed, it feels as thou you have no body, you realy do you just need to find them. Can you reach out to others, that is a very important thing for you to do right now. You are in the right place to find support. Im hear for you Logan. HUGS and KISSES

Love sis

Wertmanwomanthing 04/05/2017

Logan I can say with 100% certainty that there is a place in this world where you can flourish for being your true self, belong for being your true self and be loved for being your true self. All you have to do is find that place. Its there 100% math doesn't lie

Liam 04/06/2017

Logan, you are a brave young fellow to handle the problems you have mentioned. I have never met a person who didn't have something unique to add to the world that made them important. Things sound so tough for you now, but you can still have an amazing, meaningful, important life. I am guessing you are in school, and it could be really helpful for you to let your school counselor know about all the stress you are dealing with. , including the abuse by your dad.

It is tough being a young person, and hard handling mental health issues, and especially tough at the very beginning adjusting to coming out as transgender and learning about how to feel better and more comfortable about yourself. That gets better over time, and you are doing great asking other transgender folks for encouragement. Hang in there, dude.life has a lot of caring people for you to enjoy, and you just have to hang in there so people can find out how wonderful you are.

There are old trans gender folks like me on this site who care about you and want the best for you, and there are a lot of brave young people who you can meet on this site who can be great, supportive friends.Don't give up. Better times are coming.

Take care.
Liam

Brookeslook 04/06/2017

Hi Logan,

You are anything but a mistake in this world! You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You have unique qualities that only "you" can offer, you are loved!

I am a mom of a FTM Transgender. Not everyone you meet will understand your situation, you may need to look beyond your personal circle of friends and family for support. How about looking for a support group near you?

Velesta 04/10/2017

Hey there! None of us are mistakes, but neither did we intittionally ask to be born this way. I'm FtM and i know i never wanted to be a man when i was growing up and I would imagine that some magical night i would wake up in the right body. It is also true that none of us asked to be born at all. We are just thrown in to the sea of life with no life vest, it seems sometimes, but there is always hope. Never give up! Seek to love yourself, and understand yourself and do whatever it takes to remove the negativity from your life. If you need a chat, i'm here, and will be checking back now and then to this group! Best of luck my dear <3

=Vel

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