well considering you didn't list an age or country its hard, In the USA if you are under 18 she cant legally kick you out without risking prison time herself, If you are over 18 she absolutely can but there is case law that you can sue her for it and make her support you till you are 25 including all rent and such for your place to live. The idea of litigation is a risky one but it is there and people have done it. While I would like to think blood is thicker than anything else and parents will always love and support their children that simply isn't the case and it is a harsh reality, so you have two choices in this situation one is to stop what you are doing transitionwise and tell her you are stopping only because you don't have any where to go but once you are out you will start right back up and start working that way, or start looking at homeless shelters, jobs so on so you can get out on your own. Those are the options before you. They suck no two ways about it but you can get through it in the end. Again no age or country involved so I am speaking very generically and from the standpoint of USA. Best case scenario you are under 18 and she can have protective services notified of her treatment which may or may not be considered childabuse and you may go to a foster and be done with her. Worst case you are over 18 and well she is under no further obligations to you legally as a parent. In which case anything she is currently doing is by choice.

To the fact of your dysphoria I am going to tell you the same thing I have told many others. You don't have to do anything outwardly to fix it. In fact. all the clothing, the makeup, surgiers in the world wont help you. I say that because you will always be you and if you cant see that you are the gender you see in your mind regardless of everything else, you never will. If you are male now and going female you will do all this stuff and still see a man in the mirror or vice versa. Stop worrying about the outside and start worrying about the inside and knowing 100% you are who you are. Cause frankly without that you are going to get outed at every turn because everyone is going to see through you because you aren't convinced yourself. That will allow you to stay dealing with your mother as long as needed and help lessen your dysphoria.

how do you know for sure you have dysphoria?. i thought you need an eval by a doctor to determine that. with some its just a sexual fetish and not dysphoria . maybe you should talk to a doctor about this. sometimes this stems from a dominating mother so really, dont jump on the band wagon yet until your dysphoria is confirmed by a doctor, if your own mother is willing to toss you out, you cant be as bad off as you say. no mother would toss his son out unless she felt it was time and needed to be done. if you could be harmed by this i doubt she would do it. so really , time to go on your own maybe? then you can be who you want to be. but in her house its her rules

THOUGHT SOME MORE, sorry, normally i back trans genders but in your case i'm not. how could you ever know your not a man if you always were a boy, and never a man. maybe you feel this way because of that. you always lived at home with your mother your 34 half my age and never experienced life you have been told what to do by your mother so maybe its that you never felt like a man and not dysphoria. time to go to a doc and find out , bring your mom