My husband and I have been married for almost two years and together almost four. We were inseparable. On our first date he told me he had a friend who was transitioning mtf. He asked how I felt about that. I come from a religious southern family and to honest had never thought about it. I knew how my family felt on the topic but not me. I told him I don't have an opinion really. Later he came clean it was him considering  transitioning and he also wanted to start a relationship with me. I told him I have always been attracted to guys and did like him but unsure of a relationship if he transitioned. Fast forward he did not continue the process and we got married. A few weeks ago he told me he wanted to be a woman and never stopped wanting it. I was devastated. I asked him before we married if he was sure he wanted to be with me and stop the transistion process. He assured me he only wanted me. We were starting to discuss having a family and recently miscarried. I did not take his coming out to him well. I told him I only wanted to be with him as a guy and that I didn't care if he was hurting. I said alot of horrible things. I asked if we could compromise him wear panties and clothing like he wanted but not start hormones or dress outside. He agreed said we would take baby steps. Then about a week ago he left me. I never saw it coming. I know my biggest problem was I did not educate or try to understand his feelings. I have had alot of time to think and ask myself how I want to move forward. I know I want to be with the live of my life and I know it's not going to be easy. I am confused and scared. I never dreamed of being with a woman, but I want to support her. The only problem is she won't talk to me. Says she wants space and I don't know what to do.