Transgender Support Group

This community is here to support and help the large population of transgender people. If you or anyone you know identify as transgender, this is the place to share your feelings and experiences and speak with others who are going through similar things in their lives.

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Let_us_be_One 02/14/2018

I'm not sure what to do with myself anymore, I'm an abused mtf and I have so much social anxiety and depression I can barely leave my house just to goto therapy. I was spending a lot of time in an online chatroom for about a year and a half now but upon it coming to light I am transgendered the rooms owner who previously I considered a friend basically bullied me out of the room. At this point my only friends are basically from that room but I get so hurt just to go back there or even to talk to some of the people from there. I've already lost a lot of family due to how I am. I don't really know how to fill my time without feeling so isolated, at what point does being who I've always wanted to be stop being worth it because I'm so alienated. Is there anything I can do to help people like me even a little better? I try as hard as I can to be sweet and kind to everyone any chance I get but I guess I'm not very easy to like. I'm not even sure if this is the right place to post this but I really don't have anywhere to turn.

WyndWytch 02/14/2018

Well, so I wish I could say there is an easy answer but there isn't. people are going to be jerks, Especially in this country (USA) in the state it is in right now. The best option is to try to branch out a bit, find some new places to hang out where you will be welcomed. You mentioned that it is an online chatroom, there are likely others in the same idea that you could join where you may fit in better and not get that result. You have to remember that a relationship of any kind be it business, friends, family, lovers, they all require both sides to put in the same amount of work, which means its not you causing this. You need to just be you. Simple as that. I don't know what program you are using for these chat rooms so I cant speak to much about what is available there. There should be something though. For that part if you want to talk more, private messages may be best. Just don't try to lay it all on yourself though cause its not all on you. its equally on them. Hope this helps, if you want to talk about the program or room or what not shoot me a message on here :P take care.

Let_us_be_One 02/14/2018

thank you

WyndWytch 02/14/2018

of course :D things will get better in time :D

Let_us_be_One 02/14/2018

I really hope they do

tonyamelbourn 02/15/2018

hi i am Tonya melbourn and i too am male to female as well and i know the kind of social issue that you are facing my email is waynequ@shaw.ca if you want to be friends then add me plase

tonyamelbourn 02/15/2018

i live in British Columbia Canada and my work i do is a janitor so that's a lonely job as well. most don't like what i am doing with my life but it's my life and i have to live in it. so if they all want to be so negative about it all they can just keep to them selves as its a wright to become who we are and no one can stop you or me from doing it. but it is an emotional up and down motion and is a lonely path to be on

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