If your wife truly loves you, then she will love you for who you are no matter what. Maybe in my case it helps being Bi, I don't know. All I know is, when I see somebody unhappy, I want to do everything in my power to make them happy again. But that person has to want to be happy and make changes in their own life to do so. But I will support and love them no matter what. And in some cases, I tend to fall for them as well lol.

If your wife will not love you for you, its better to know that now, then to find out 20 years later. We have to be around the people who supports us most, not around people who wish we were different. And right you are about how you are feeling better about yourself.

You see, you didn't need all those medications swimming inside you, that was not the answer. The answer was accepting yourself and learning to love yourself. Its the first step anyone transgender can do. And its also a very important step for relationships. Because, how can you love others, if you do not love yourself?

I have faith in you that you will make the right decision, because you my friend are amazing. All of us transgendered folks are amazing and special. Weather you see it or not, you are a gift, cherish that thought, and let it fill your heart with joy. :)

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Ashley

it got silly as I mean im not marrying a girl as I want my own back and my life as one, and im not marrying in a religious marriage anyway as they had planned. ill decide that. this business of partners got iffy I don't want a girlfriend as we found im a girl I don't want one, and id had enough of people trying to force my brain into unwanted sex and relationships too. I got worrying over the trans religionists I mean they go down these meetings theyre transsexual and the go down there as boys as their religion says like do goody goods. if they got their heels and lipstick and blouse I could understand them but why are they there with paedos anyway when we prosecuted them one way or another. we had this problem with them trying that of trying to say who could marry who and why when we always told them to go away........so if that miserable little bitch would get out oof my life trying it on it would be appreciated is all I feel or can say, and theres nothing else to say.
im not going to be her boyfriend or live as one or perform any tasks to be one and certainly not in mummies religion. it was like that.
so I don't want to know ...........
we get that a lot with gender dysphoria where they get a divorce I wasn't married guess why and have no ties and im not signing so it was easier and don't want a relationship with her unless I say and for trying that it wouldn't be her anyway even if I was lesbian.
and heres no forgiveness and no tomorowws as I didn't agree in the first place, as I had said "oh no were nottttt" and it meant and means it.........so its like that, and im quite happy as a girl re[aired if it could be and back with my boyfriend. and thats my decision

im losing my wife and im going to always remember how much we had together i still will always love her but i understand why she cant be with me as a woman its ok she said youll always be remembered as my husband but i will support you wherever you may be that was her words so its ok just remember it as the those beautiful special dreams that you can keep forever okxxxxxbe strong sweetyxxxi know its hard but be strongxxxx

I'm sorry to hear about your wife, there is know is know doubt that your relationship will change forever as you transition. Hopefully, over time she my have a more positive relationship. If you are happy with your transitioning, keep moving forward because although some may not understand or even except your transitioning but it is you who has to live with you your whole life. It is important for you to be happy with who you are or you will make life harder on those around you. Your road to transitioning might be filled with some bumps but the trip will be worth it. Your beautiful and hope things stay positive for you :-)

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Melinda68