Transgender Support Group
This community is here to support and help the large population of transgender people. If you or anyone you know identify as transgender, this is the place to share your feelings and experiences and speak with others who are going through similar things in their lives.
I'm a transgender mtf and pre operation yet. So, I totally looked like male. I made friends with the girls but it seems hard to be friends with the guys. Because first, I'm shy (I'm a girl after all!), and secondly, I think I can't connect with the guys (I can't talk about soccer, or pussy, or they can't talk about fashion, etc). But I really want to be friends with all genders. How do I do this? Any advice please?
This is the question that has plagued women for millenia. The short answer is find common ground and do not work so hard to be friends with everyone.
I have many women friends and we do not discuss make up or fashion, we both know what subjects we have in common, so we discuss those but before we found those out, we just did small talk, discussed what we did on our spare time.
However, I have found I have more in common with nerds than I do with regular guys since I read and do not like sports. So try being friends with nerds and they may be less likely to reject you, since they tend to be a tad more open minded. Join a chess club or something les stereotypical of guys
Just a thought,
Wolf (FTM since 1987)
The problem is I don't really have any woman in my life, I don't really have friends in general. I got neighbors but thats about it, everybody knows you don't get real with your neighbors cause they don't care about you, cause if they knew the truth, they'd crussify you.
I'd be glad to talk about girls stuff with you, but I know its not the same thing as actually having a friend in real life.