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THE TRUTH COMES OUT
Sunday, June 27, 2021
12:25 AM
I am going to say this and now I AM PUTTING IT ON social media just to please a certain person, for 36 years of my life I have been gaslighted by YOU and by my KIDS because they have learned it from you. I LEFT BECAUSE OF THE ABUSE AND THE PHYSICAL ABUSE AS WELL THAT I HAVE TOLLERATED FOR ALL THOSE YEARS. YOU POP QUESTIONS AT ME SAYING " WHY AM I STILL HERE " HE WOULD RESPOND BACK TO YOU: I AM TRYING TO TAKE CARE OF MY FAMILY" AND WHAT FUCKING PERSON WOULD SAY THAT TO THIER HUSBAND !!!! IT WASN'T SAID ONCE BUT SEVERAL TIMES, AND THEN AS HE STARTED PACKING HIS STUFF YOU FOLLOW ME AROUND YELLING AT ME WHERE AM I GOING AS I START PACKING AND THEN YOU CALL THE POLICE ON ME MAKING A STATEMENT ON THE PHONE THAT I AM HARRASING YOU AND THAT I HAVE A WARRENT OUT FOR MY ARREST AS I BACKED DOWN PLEADING LIKE A DOG ASKING FOR YOU TO FORGIVE ME. UNTILL APRIL 23, 2019 DANIELLE TOOK OVER SAYING ENOUGH IS ENOUGH IT WAS TIME TO GO. GETTING HURT BY YOU AND ONE OF KIDS THAT GOT IN HIS FACE JUST BECAUSE HE ASKED IF YOU GOT HIM A SANDWICH OR DINNER FROM THE STORE ,FROM OLIVE GARDEN, AS HE REPLIED BACK TELLING YOU THAT ITS OK FOR YOU TO BUY EVERYONE ELSE DINNER AND NOT ME, YEA THATS RIGHT ONLY TO HAVE OUR SON GET IN HIS FACE YELLING AT HIM. HIM YELLING AT HIS FATHER SAYING HERE HAVE IT YOU PIECE OF SHIT AS HE PICKED HIM UP AND TOSSED HIS DAD ACROSS THE ROOM AND DO YOU REMEMBER WHAT YOU SAID TO HIM, YOU PROBLALLY DON'T BECAUSE YOU WILL SAY YOU HAVEN'T DONE NOTHING WRONG, YOU WERE THE ONE THAT WAS BEING ABUSED BY DANIEL, BUT THE TRUTH IS AND I DANIELLE REMEMBERS EVERYTHING LIKE IT WAS YESTURDAY. YES I DO REMEMBER, DANIEL LEFT A NOTE TELLING YOU THAT HE WAS NOT COMMING BACK THAT HE THOUGHT THAT THINGS WOULD CHANGE BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU BUT HE WAS THE FOOL. YOU PLAYED HIM TELLING HIM EVERY CHANCE YOU GOT THAT HE WAS A PIECE OF SHIT. CAN'T DO NOTHING WRIGHT BY YOU BLAME HIM FOR THINGS THAT STOPPED WORKING , BLAMED HIM FOR YOUR BUSINESS FAILING AND WORST OF ALL ACCUSING HIM OF STEALING YOUR MONEY MANY TIMES HE WOULD TELL YOU WHY WOULD HE DO THAT IT WOULD ALSO HURT ME AS WELL AND HIS DAUGHTER MAKING YOU THINK THAT HE HAS DONE SOMETHING UNFORGIVEABLE FOR WHICH HE DID NOTHING ONLY TO SHOW SOME KIDS ON HOW TO SAVE MONEY WHEN THEY PURCHASE COSMETICS AND HOW UNFORTUNATE THAT THEY WERE THE SAME GIRLS THAT WORKED WITH HER CHATTING ABOUT HER DAD IN SUCH MANNER. CAUSING HER TO REACT UPSET THAT SHE RAN ALL THE WAY HOME. SUCH BITCHES. AS YOU AND EVERYONE ELSE ACTED LIKE A BUNCH OF PAPPERATZIES DEMANDING TO HAND OVER THE CELL PHONE HE HAD TO SEE THE PHOTOS OF HIM DRESSED AS A FEMALE.
YOU FEEL THAT HE HAD NO RIGHT TO LEAVE !!! AND THAT HE ACTED LIKE A COWARD BY LEAVING A NOTE SAYING THAT HE LEFT IN A WRONG MANNER. HOW ELSE WOULD HE HAVE DONE IT KNOWING WHAT YOU WOULD DO TO HIM. HE DID WHAT WAS BEST FOR HIM BECAUSE YOU WOULD HAVE DONE THE SAME THING TO HIM AS PREVIOUSLY SO HE WOULD BACK DOWN BUT NOT THIS TIME, IF HE DIDN'T LEAVE HE WOULD HAVE BEEN BLIND IN 6 MONTHS BUT WAIT THATS RIGHT HE ASKED YOU TO SET AN APPOINTMENT UP TO SEE THE EYE DOCTOR BUT DID YOU !!!!!! ALSO HE ASKED TO SET UP TO SEE A REGULAR DOCTOR FOR HIS 2 HERNIAS BUT DID YOU. NO YOU DID NOT, THAT HIS BOSS FOUND HIM ON THE FUCKING FLOOR IN PAIN AND TOLD HIM TO GET IT TAKEN CARE OF BEFORE COMING BACK TO WORK. YOU TELL HIM THAT YOU CARE AND STILL LOVE HIM !!! IN MY OPINION THATS NOT LOVE. ITS NOTHING BUT HATE. IF HE STAYED WITH YOU IN SIX MONTHS HE WOULD HAVE BEEN BLIND OR WORSE YET DEAD BECAUSE OF HIGH BLOOD PRESURE. YOU COMPLAIN ABOUT HIS PAYCHECKS YELLING AT HIM WHY IS YOUR PAYCHECK THIS AMOUNT IN PUBLIC OF ALL PLACES. HE HARDLY ASK FOR THINGS KNOWING WHAT YOU WILL SAY, HE WORE SHOES THAT WERE ABOUT TO FALL APART. THAT IS NOT CARING ITS ABUSIVE. HE DID NOT LEAVE TO TRANSITION HE LEFT BECAUSE OF THE ABUSE. YOU HAD HIM WORKING 2 FULL TIME JOBS AVERAGING OVER 80 HOURS A WEEK OUT THE DOOR AT 6 AM AND BACK HOME AROUND MIDNIGHT OR 1 AM ONLY GETTING MAYBE 3 HOURS OF SLEEP, HAVING TO DECIED TO EAT OR TO GRAB AN EXTRA FEW MINS. OF SLEEP AND NOT EATING, BUT WHEN HE SAW BAGS OF FOOD FROM A RESTURAUNT HE WOULD ASK IS ANY ONE OF THEM FOR HIM AND YOUR REPLY WAS OH!! I FORGOT OR THE DOGS GOT IT. MANY NIGHTS HE WOULD GO HUNGRY AND DID YOU KNOW IN APRIL HE ONLY WEIGHED 123 LBS. 123 LBS. FOR A MAN THAT IS SUPPOSED TO WEIGH ABOUT 160 BEING 5"7 BUT DID YOU CARE NO!!
HE STRUGGLED WHILE HE WAS TRAVELING BACK TO JERSEY, ALL HE DID WAS CRY AND TRYING TO TELL HIMSELF IS THIS A MISSTAKE, I SHOULD TURN BACK AND ACT THAT NOTHING HAPPENED BUT I SAID NO, HE NEEDED TO GET OUT OF THE SITUTATION HE WAS IN.
YOU KNOW THAT HE STILL CARES AND LOVES YOU BUT YOU DON'T SHOW IT BACK. YOU SAY THAT YOU DO BUT YOU DON'T SHOW IT BY HUGGING HIM OR KISS HIM YOU JUST WALK AWAY OR TELL HIM DON'T TOUCH ME. EVEN THOUGH HE CAN TELL THAT YOUR HURTING BUT THE AFFECTION TOWARDS HIM IS LIKE DO YOU EVEN KNOW HOW TO SHOW AFFECTION TO HIM ?? I DO NOT THINK SO. YOU TOLD HIM WHEN YOU CONTACTED HIM THAT YOU FILED FOR A DIVORCE AND IT WAS A 2 YEAR WAIT TO GET IT DONE FOR FREE, BUT DID YOU ?? NO YOU DIDN'T BECAUSE ONCE YOU FILE THEY HAVE THE OBLIGATION TO SEND THE PAPERS OUT HE NEVER RECEIVED THEM BUT THEN MONTHS LATER YOU TELL HIM THAT YOU WILL NEVER DIVORCE HIM. DO YOU THINK THAT IS FAIR TO HIM OR YOU. HE WOULD TELL YOU THAT HE STARTED TO TRANSITION TO BECOME A FEMALE SOMETHING THAT HAS BOTHERED HIM FOR YEARS. ENJOYED WEAR WOMENS CLOTHES THAT MADE HIM FEEL AT PEACE. THE ANXIETY THAT HE HAD TO PUT UP WITH AND EVEN WITH YOU TELLING HIM OR ASKING HIM THE SAME QUESTIONS THAT HIS PARENTS WOULD ASK HIM, WHY ARE YOU WALKING LIKE THAT, WHY ARE YOU TALKING FUNNY, YOU CAN'T TELL ME THAT YOU DIDN'T KNOW THAT HE WAS A TRANSGENDER, THEY WAY HE WAS ACTING LIKE A FEMALE.
WHY WON'T YOU REALIZE THAT YOU ARE THE ONE THAT PUSHED HIM AWAY AS HE KEPT TELLING YOU THAT HE LOVES YOU AND TO STOP PUSHING HIM AWAY, YOU MADE HIM FEEL LIKE TRASH YES LIKE TRASH BUT IN YOUR OWN MIND YOU THINK THAT YOU WERE BEING ABUSED BY HIM WHICH IS THE OTHER WAY AROUND. HE DID EVERYTHING TO PLEASE YOU AS YOU WENT TO JERSEY FOR THE WEEKEND AND NOT TELLING HIM OR WENT ON A TRIP WITH OUR SON WITH MAKE A WISH WHILE HE STAYED HOME.
DO YOU KNOW HOW IT MADE HIM FEEL THAT YOU HAVE DONE THESE THINGS, LEAVING HIM OUT!! I WAS NEVER RAISED LIKE THAT AND DANIEL DIDN'T DESERVE IT AND AS FOR THE KIDS THEY SHOULD BE ASHAMED BECAUSE OF WHAT THEIR FATHER DID BUT THEY ONLY KNOW WHAT THEY HEAR FROM YOU!! I DO NOT CARE ABOUT THE WAY THEY FEEL ABOUT ME BUT ONE THING FOR SURE THEY ARE MISSING OUT AND THEY NEED TO KNOW THAT I WILL NEVER CLOSE THE DOOR ON THEM EVEN THOUGH THEY SHUT THE DOOR ON ME. I OFFERED YOU TO MEET DANIELLE YOU SAID NO AND IF SHE SHOWED UP AT THE DOOR YOU WOULD CALL THE POLICE AND ANY RELATIONSHIP I HAD WITH MY KIDS WOULD BE GONE AND THAT MY 2 BOYS WOULD NOT UNDERSTAND WHY I DID WHAT I DID AND THAT MY OLDEST DAUGHTER HATES ME BECAUSE THE WAY I LEFT. I HAD MY REASONS. YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT I WAS FEELING INSIDE OF ME BECAUSE WHEN EVER I TRIED TO TALK TO YOU ABOUT IT YOU ACTED THAT YOU DIDN'T HAVE THE TIME FOR ME OR YOU WEREN'T FEELING GOOD AS OUR TALK NEVER HAPPENED.
I WILL SAY THIS I AM HAPPY FOR WHAT I DID EVEN THOUGH DANIEL IS AGAINST IT. YEA MY SUBCONCIOUS MIND THROWS OUT THE FLASH BACKS. JUST AS YOU KEEP TELLING ME THAT I POSTED IT ON SOCIAL MEDIA ABOUT EVERYTHING WELL JUST TO LET YOU KNOW I DID NOT BUT NOW YOU CAN SAY THAT I DID SO HERE IT IS. ON SOCIAL MEDIA. THREATEN ME ALL YOU WANT AS I CAN BE A REAL BITCH AS I AM NOT DANIEL THAT WILL SWEEP THINGS UNDER THE RUG I CAN BE SUCH A BITCH JUST LIKE YOU AND WE WILL SEE WHO WILL WIN. I AM TIRED OF YOU TREATING DANIEL LIKE HE IS NOTHING BUT YOUR OWN BUTLER. GET YOU THIS AND THAT AND TAKE YOU TO HOME DEPOT AND GRAB YOU BAGS OF TOP SOIL SO YOU CAN HAVE A LEVEL POOL IN THE YARD.
SOON DANIEL WILL NOT BE GOING UP AS DANIEL BUT AS HER SELF DANIELLE.
THAT IS WHO I AM DANIELLE NO LONGER DANIEL HE IS GONE IN A SENSE, YOUR GOING TO HAVE TO FACE THE FACT THAT I AM GOING TO BE MY TRUE SELF AND I AM PROUD OF BEING HER. I AM AT PEACE WITH MYSELF. HIS LOVE FOR YOU WILL NEVER DIE EVEN THOUGH YOU WILL NOT LOVE HIM BACK AS YOU SAID YOU MARRIED DANIEL NOT DANIELLE WHICH IS TRUE. SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO LET THINGS GO, SO DO WHAT IS RIGHT LET HIM GO. DANIEL IS STILL HERE THE ONLY THING THAT HAS CHANGED IS HIS OUTSIDE APPERANCE NOT WHAT'S ON THE INSIDE IT IS STILL HIM. HE STILL LIVES INSIDE ME AND NOW I AM LIVING MY LIFE AS DANIELLE AND I AM HAPPY.