Transgender Support Group

This community is here to support and help the large population of transgender people. If you or anyone you know identify as transgender, this is the place to share your feelings and experiences and speak with others who are going through similar things in their lives.

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Thelonewolf 09/20/2016

I have been on this site for awhile, but i dont really use it often... I know that the best opinions is from a therapist or what ever. But im just looking for a little support and knowledge from other normal people.

So as i said a few things have happened, the other day my friend came out to me as trans ftm, the thing is, i have been contemplating that for me as well for a couple of years now, but at the same time im not sure. I was just wondering if there is a site for like....parts....like there is dildo and toy sites. But is there anything i can do to explore to see. Im so confused on how i feel. I just wish there was a way i could figure it out with out therapists. And i could also help my friend out depending on what they are wanting.

They are lucky they already have a small chest though. I would have to get a reduction which im also scared about. I have never liked my breasts even when they started to form when i was younger.

Thelonewolf 09/22/2016

Anyone?

outlast 09/24/2016

Well Lonewolf..If you are confused the most normal thing in the world to do is question why and then answer yourself :)

WyndWytch 09/26/2016

OOOkay so I am not going the same direction but you want to search out binders and packers. you are going to have to do research on them because I have no clue what is good, bad or indifferent. I just know that is what you are looking for (binder for the top, Packer for the bottom). As far as the rest, because you are going female to male and no one really cares today how non feminine a woman dresses, cut your hair, start dressing in men's clothing and do your thing. Its not that uncommon for women to dress that way in normal situations so you will be able to still move seamlessly but still explore. That's the best I can give you for going the route of no therapist to actually help you figure out where you fall. I still say the fastest way would be a therapist, but this would be your next best option.

strausbaughl 10/26/2016

Hi there! I identify as a FTM trans* individual and have been in your shoes before. Wearing more masculine clothing or cutting your hair short is a great place to start since many cisgender females can do this also. If you want to go a little further, try out a binder or a packer. I'll post a few sites for those at the end of this. When I was questioning things, I also had some close friends start using gender neutral pronouns for me (they/them/theirs instead of she/her/hers). Once I felt comfortable with those, I had them try masculine pronouns to see how I felt about that. It all depends on your comfort level on how much exploring you want to do so either test the waters with neutral pronouns and some more masculine clothing items or dive right in with male pronouns, a binder for a flat chest, and a fake penis in your pants. If it ends up feeling uncomfortable, the best part is, those are easy things to change back.

Packers: www.toolshedtoys.com, www.ftmessentials.com, www.reelmagik.com (for cheaper options, they have a few on Amazon or simply putting a pair of socks in your underwear creates that bulge look for cheap)

Binders: www.gc2b.com (what most FTMs use), www.underworks.com, www.f2mbinders.com (these are the main binder producers that transguys utilize. Again, Amazon has some cheaper options if you just want to explore, however, NEVER try binding with Ace bandages!!)

Let me know if you want to talk about anything further!

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