This is the typical mind of a TS chaser.

My guy likes TS women, but he prefers postop women over preop. Why? Because preops are sex starved most of the time, and he wants a mental connection rather than a quick fix. He also prefers TS women to genetic women. Why? Because most genetic women are bitchy, dramatic and whatever else he said that I forget off hand.

My question is why you're dating 2 transsexual women? What's gonna happen if they find out you're not monogamous?

As for this group, we are here to support one another in our struggles as TS's, to help one another come to terms with who we are if need be, to give each other advice if the need rises. Most of us here do not discuss sex in most of the threads.

Speaking of sex, 1. As a postop, my sex drive has went down tremendously. And second, please visit the healthy sex forum, as they talk about sex on the regular over there.

My guess would be that you are enjoying the taboo of what you are doing. The idea of what would others say if they knew. I think its just something that is a nono and thus has a thrill associated with it.

Just a reminder that we are not wind up pleasure toys, we also have feelings too, individually.

Thank you all for your comments. I don't want anyone to think i don't care about the ladies I'm dealing with because i do and i know that have feelings and I do try to be respectful and the reason why i came to this group was not to just talk about sex but that i want understand the transgender community a little better (get educated) and oh they both do know of each other and they seem to be ok with it, they tell me that it's hard to find a straight guy who excepts them as they are (I've always referred to them as women and treat them as so).

Well then.. on the educational note, welcome to our group. So, what questions do you have in mine?

Why on earth would someone date 2 people at once? And who would be okay with sharing their partner? Sorry but I was raised to see one person, and dating another at the same time is cheating.

Well for instance both of my friends are dealing with the effects of being isolated from their families because of who they are and i try to be there for them as much as i can and i know all of you can probably relate and they want me with them all the time and i do help them financially so they really don't do much through out the day so they hang out at some of the local alternative clubs. Do you see this as a problem down the line.cause i own my own business and can't be there all the time.

i would agree with some people's comments here.It is not right to date two women at once.And also it seems like you don't love those women....You say you have addiction to transsexual women.(!!) It means you just see them as a sexual fetish and it sounds as you don't have respect to any of those two women or any transsexual women at all.People are not meant to be played with,some of them have emotions,you know.It's your life,but i have to say i feel sorry for your partners.

I don't agree with some of the comments that I've received especially that i don't care about the women in my life and i do very much and further more i feel hostility about the fact that i date two women now most of you say it's wrong but but how is it wrong when both of them agree this is fine with them and I'm wondering if all this hostility stems from fact that maybe there's something lacking in your lives and you're taking it out on me?

My question is this, why are you dating two ts women when you have a wife? I am not hostile. Nor do I gave two shits about your "love life". I am just curious.

If you don't like me using my god given right to voice my opinion about dating two women while you have a wife, you can kindly fuck off. And I use kindly very strongly.

I do not agree with this lifestyle you chose to live, and I am going to voice it because as an American I have that right.

If you don't want negative feedback, then the internet isn't for you.

I made no mention on the whole dating of two women at once. Honestly i don't really care if you date 1 or 20. That said, don't mistake the fact that they may feel they have limited choices and just simply don't want to say they are not really okay with the situation. You said yourself they mentioned they have a hard time finding a straigh guy who accepts them. This means that they may be just making the best they can with the option. I have friends who are polyamorous so the fact you date more than one person at a time doesn't bother me in the least. As far as helping them deal with thier stuff they are going through, listening is the largest thing you can do. being there for the person and watching out for their well being.

As for your helping them i give you full marks there. Consider though that if they are unwilling to attempt to make it on their own by being gainfully employed, they are never going to move forward as they need to. they are going to have to go out there and make it on their own, and eventually you will have to cut them off to make it happen.

First off I'm divorced!!secondly i think maybe you need to get laid (shiftingal)maybe that's why you seem to be hung up on the two women aspect cause I'm sensing some pent up frustration maybe of sexual nature, i don't know and that makes you come across as very very ignorant and I've come on and I've treated everyone with respect and you've been nothing but a complete ass.

If you're divorced then change your fucking profile information you dumbass. As for not having sex... honestly sex is not everything you dumb fuck. I don't care to go out and get laid by random people like you. I don't risk STDs like you. I have not had sex since going postop, and to be honest I don't even think about sex on the regular, unless something comes over me and I get frisky.

Your response is of a typical butthurt person. Please do us all a favor and go fuck yourself.

Shiftinggal you're fucking pathetic and by the looks of you i don't think anyone want to fuck you and as for sex and STD's you dum ass fuck condoms have been around for nearly 200 years anyone who catches a STD today is stuped but so are you so yeah you would be afraid of STDs. Now I'm done with you cause you're not worth anyone's time!!!