haha I guess I could say more than that. I joined this group because I got written up about not being tidy in my work area? I usually am good about keeping up on my work. But lately my personal life has become my priority. I am wondering if there is any one out there with this type of situation that may be able to help me. Any suggestions would help me out a great deal. Today during lunch my daughter said some really hurtful things to me and I came into work just upset and now I am sitting here with my list in front of me and wondering can I possibly get this done, meanwhile there is a lump in my throat. Meanwhile my boss told me to go and get help from a counselor, which I did sign up but I never showed up for the appointment. I hope someone out there can give me some pointers. I feel like I am asking someone to stand over me and tell me now you need to do this, and then do that. I guess that is why I feel uncomfortable asking for help. ok I will stop here for now.

It feels kind of like a baby-sitter, but until I understand things better ( I have MS & Epilepsy from MS & the confusion from both can be too much physically to manage some days) well, I almost kind of need a life coach to walk me around & teach me how to understand how to even do this new life I have now.

I'm completely optimistic & see God wanting me to take hold of my strength & I get that, but the confusion is something else & add the physical symptoms on top of it it's like...OUCH! MY HEAD LITERALLY HURTS TO THINK most days! Seriously!

Sometimes, with the particular type of Epilepsy I get & the confusion of the MS PLUS the physical pain, well, some days are all a big blur & all I hear myself saying 9 times out of 10 some days is, "HUH?!" Can you explain that to me one more time? What? Can you explain that yet again on top of it!"

It's not that I feel stupid. I know I'm smart. It's just the fact that I can't process anything anymore in my brain because of the way the MS & Epilepsy is attacking my body.

Take care,
Stay sane!

I've just joined this group because I had two weeks off from work (vacation) and I was supposed to be getting something meaningful done at home - and I didn't complete hardly any of my goals. I can say that I needed the rest, but I also needed to get my book out to my editor. I also needed to work on my accounts. I also needed to clean my office. I also needed to do laundry! So, I am reaching out for help and support. I can do this! I am simply emotionally drained. I was feeling ill! I was suffering from symptoms of gout! I was disappointed because I worked very hard and some of the folk that I work for (clients) do not keep their end of the bargain and pay on time! So, I am sad. I am a bit discouraged and couldn't work! Help me if you can! I am trying to get out of the 'funk.' I was almost out, but it came back and grabbed me by the foot. Ouch! Help!

Well I went and did orientation for counseling, and then I finished cleaning off my desk and now I am taking a small breather while i get ready to move on to the next step, just an update, I still feel overwhelmed, and feel like I could do more, but my mind and body get so tired lately, I go to zumba classes three times a week, it helps me a little bit, but I really need to work on cleaning my house, does any one got any suggestions on that, I have an extra family living with me, and I feel like they just eat sleep and....you know the rest, and two children in diapers, ugh I can't stand a smelly house, so any suggestions. Help!!!!!

I joined this group in hopes to learn some tips and techniques to use to help me manage my life a little better. I'm taking classes and working full time. My work hours are crazy, and sometimes I don't get home until 9:30 at night. After that, it's classwork and bed. I'm a major procrastinator, and tend to scramble at the last minute to get things done. Today I just missed getting written up at work for not making my 2010 required billable hours. I made it (barely), but the stress was too much. Personally, my husband gets fed up always waiting for me and dealing with my stress level. Any tips would be greatly appreciated!

Sounds like you're really having a tough time. It's hard to go to work after hurtful talk from your daughter, I'm sure.

I agree that you should find a good therapist and go to the appointment.
If you don't like one, try another. You may have a friend who can recommend someone. Lastly, I really admire you taking on the job of a single parent.

We give our lives to our jobs and in fifty years - what will we have to show for it? Your personal life should take some priority. I don't know what you do professionally but if it is possible, take a short vacation. Invest in some family activities and family bonding. Go see the counselor. The most strength that a leader can show is knowing when to ask for help. When we unload our stress, feel safe and secure in our personal lives, then we can give more energy to our jobs. When I settle things in my personal life, I can give more at my job because I feel good. Take a vacation. See a counselor.
Julie