mhm.

i understand that feeling merylou.

Sometimes I feel like I won't ever meet someone, but I always have people telling me that relationships these days are no good so I shouldn't worry about it. I am so conflicted.

Yea we all get those feelings.But really who knows what might happen an hour later so how can we predict our future.I guess we need to hang on and when we have waited so long why stop now.
Isn't it?

Not me I would love to love again. My heart aches so bad I can hardly breathe. It's been 14 months now since I became single. I am finding it hard to meet people so I try online and still nothing. Only the loosers want to talk to me. I am sorry but I do have standards. I hope sometime soon I meet a good woman who will love me for me as I am. Feeling down about it. I even give a disgusted look when I see a couple together. I don't want to be this way but I just am. I am too young to be alone for the rest of my life. I want a life long partner. I haven't even been on a date in this 14 month period. I took time to heal but now I am ready to go on a date and hopefully find someone special that i can enjoy sharing my life with and showing her my love through and through. An old romantic here.till the end.

I haven't been in a intimate relationship yet. On the inside, I feel like I want and need to have an intimate someone in my life. But, all I hear about are the negatives; like harsh break ups, cheating, fighting, death and all that stuff. It almost makes me not want a relation.
Anyone else feel this way.

I sure do. I've been trying to get back out there, but it's brought nothing but games and hurt. People just don't care about each other anymore and don't believe in actually working on a relationship. The minute something doesn't go their way, they're off to find someone else. Yes, being alone is not much fun, but it sure does have alot less stress!

I would like to find love someday too, but I've given up looking for it. Either it finds me or I stay alone. Fortunately, I've been alone long enough to be able to take care of myself and to actually enjoy being with myself. So, either way works for me. One thing I've learned is that I am much happier alone than in the wrong relationship. :)

I agree with sargenthooah, I too would LOVE to find someone who would appreciate a women like me. I have been single for a long time now, and I have tried a long distance with someone for 2 years, and that didn't work.

I know that I am a good person, who loves deep, and would treat someone really good, I just don't understand why I can't get any to last. I that start of a relationship when everyone is happy, laughing, the giddyness. Then for some reason, it changes. I don't change. I love it..but something happens.

I am a quiet person at first, but I really want to one day find that one person to stay faithful and fun with just me.. forever. I'm so afraid that I will be alone the rest of my life. That really scares me. It's ok for some people if that they are ok, but not me.. I dont' want it. I want someone to grow old with, and share each day together. Someone to wake up with and go to sleep with.. So I feel like you do too....

i agree. I was trying to find a relationship. I had bad experiences.I feel like giving up. Now I can log back in dailystrength, I can talk to people really care about me, not just family members.

I feel the same way. I'm
Hurting so much right now.