Hi there, some of you know me from other sites, but I just found this group and thought I would introduce myself. I have two adult ES who have estranged themselves quite suddenly about seven months ago. It was a shock because we thought we were getting along fine with them. The shock is over, and we are rebuilding our lives. It's tough, but we are both survivors. I am a refugee from the drama on the other group, after the last go round I don't want to be part of that drama, as I like virtual BBQ a la Hoggie!
Sorry, clicked before I was finished.....If you haven't already, you may want to check out "The Vault" and "Our Site" on the upper right corner of the main site page. A great description of what goes on here and good solid discussion topics from the past and present.
WELLLLLLLLLLLLL....I'm moving over to welcome yet another Deb to our cozy family (I'm Deb too.....the one with the ever changing avatars....it keeps the others here amused and smiling).
We are well known for Baileys and marshmallows (long story) served by cabana boys :P
Pull up a chair and sit a spell. No drama goin on here and a mix of topics which is what I like.....variety....the spice of life!
So glad the drama is over. . . but I have to admit, a few times during the show I wasn't sure if it was drama or comedy. . .in the words of a very smart friend, "they shoulda sold tickets!"
While most of us here are on the "moving past it all" journey... we are also here to support those who trip and fall on occasion... (it happens to all of us once in a while...). You'll find that many posts have nothing to do with estrangement. (Moving on...!)
Yes... there is a strict "No Drama" policy... which is easily adhered to by simply respecting other people's opinions. We affectionately call this the "adult" room! LOL!
I can out swear any drunken sailor any day of the week. I try to keep it as tame as possible here and at work as I realize there are some that are offended. Occasionally I say crap or hell.....but I reserve the big bad words for the EO and other offensive ppl if they ruffle my feathers enough. I'm usually over the top with my avatars so therefore I keep my language in check as best I can LOL.
I feel there is an unspoken rule about language......careful and easy does it :)
Which is why You allknow why My Posts will be few and far between because I love MY 4 letter words!!! And its just impossible for me to act like someone Im not...Sooooo LOL I dont want any grief or drama so Ill remain silent and let it rip in Pms and Emails And of course Good Old fashioned PHone!!! All Works for me!!! :0~~~
Well, "poop" is a four-letter word, and I think I got away with that one once. . .
Now, if you're talking F-words, let's see. . . the worst F-word I can think of is "family," but it's more than 4 letters and has to be preceded by the word "my" in order for it's incredible nastiness to take effect. . .
Welcome! Jump right in!
PPB
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A warm welcome to you. I have been on DS since 2011, but only here in the Den for a short time. It is a good place!
Welcome, again.......
We are well known for Baileys and marshmallows (long story) served by cabana boys :P
Pull up a chair and sit a spell. No drama goin on here and a mix of topics which is what I like.....variety....the spice of life!
While most of us here are on the "moving past it all" journey... we are also here to support those who trip and fall on occasion... (it happens to all of us once in a while...). You'll find that many posts have nothing to do with estrangement. (Moving on...!)
Yes... there is a strict "No Drama" policy... which is easily adhered to by simply respecting other people's opinions. We affectionately call this the "adult" room! LOL!
Again... Welcome!
It<s peaceful , human and no domination . Woot ! Woot !
It<s peaceful , human and no domination . Woot ! Woot !
I feel there is an unspoken rule about language......careful and easy does it :)
Now, if you're talking F-words, let's see. . . the worst F-word I can think of is "family," but it's more than 4 letters and has to be preceded by the word "my" in order for it's incredible nastiness to take effect. . .