I've not really been absent -- been reading, but not much time for comments! I will do better. Have a daughter in a domestic crisis that requires serious and on going help from us (she has little girls 4,3) and the other party has broken down the door, threatened, terminated the girls health insurance (they are not married) -- and other excreable behaviours. This has taken a lot of my time to do all the legal documents for a car (she let him trade hers in for his new one a while back and has been driving a vehicle of his father's); helping her with Custody Complaint for NC; prepping her for the DSS Support process, and getting her life insurance, will, and legal guardianship petition if she would die set up. Lots of concentration, which aggravates my Parkinson's and leaves me pretty worn out. Plus the police have been out there due to the breaking & entering, and we worry about her/girls safety.

And, I have a surgery coming up the 23rd of July, that required extra paperwork because of my heart, cancer, BP, diabetes, brain tumor, and other conditions -- and BC/BS had to make an exception to use the physician that did the original work (disability Medicare insurance is a little different).

SO -- having said all that, I am blessed by the love and posts I read at least every other day, and blessed by each of you. Spare prayers gratefully accepted :) Love to you all! Annie